María Montez
in Relationships

She is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from her own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if she could turn her feelings on and off at will; María should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for she could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to her as they are to most people and Montez often considers her friends closer to her than her blood relatives. Certainly, Montez's sympathy and concern extends much beyond her immediate family. In her personal relationships, María Montez insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as she chooses. María does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

María Montez feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and she has little taste for convention and tradition.

She is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for her belongings give María Montez a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to her. Antiques or things with sentimental value from María's past are especially dear to her.

María Montez may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of her immediate circle.

Gregarious and fun loving, she is always out to have a good time. María Montez tends to "play now, pay later" and is prone to overspend, overeat, drink too much, and in general overdo, and even more so when in the company of others. It is hard for María Montez to say no, especially when Montez's emotions or appetites are involved. Generous to a fault, she is likely to be very free both with money and with affection.

Emotionally she is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If she is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, María Montez flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring her down. Her emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. María Montez feels what others feel, and physically she is very open and impressionable. Standing up for herself, saying no when she wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for María Montez to learn. María Montez should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.

María has an affectionate, warm-hearted, congenial and fun loving nature, and her emotional impulses are quite strong. Forming relationships with others is important to María Montez and she may have an early desire for marriage.

In a love relationship, María Montez is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. María likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and María Montez becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to María Montez's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. María Montez needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Montez finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

María Montez loves romance and wishes that the honeymoon phase of her love relationships would last forever! Montez needs dramatic romantic gestures and displays of affection from her partner, and she wants to feel very, very special, like a royalty, to her beloved. María Montez also has an artistic flair and she enjoys creating art or beauty in some form.

She is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy herself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. María Montez rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in her early life, María is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing her feelings. Though Montez craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for her. She may become romantically involved with people who do not value her or treat her well. María Montez needs to learn to love and value herself before she finds happiness in love.

When it comes to love relationships, Montez is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, María Montez has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if María acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.

Her love feelings are easily aroused and her romantic relationships begin with a sudden electric attraction, but they often end abruptly, and Montez may be in and out of love relationships - especially in her younger years. María Montez craves emotional excitement and needs to feel spontaneous and free, so she may avoid making firm personal commitments. Unusual or nontraditional forms of love and relationships appeal to Montez, and she is attracted to unique, creative or unstable people.

María Montez has a rich, colorful, dreamy imagination and a refined sense of beauty. Involvement in the arts, or with artistic, sensitive, or spiritually inclined people is very satisfying to her. In her friendships and romantic relationships, Montez tends to be unselfish, giving, and forgiving. María Montez might enjoy joining with others for charitable events or social service.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Opposition Jupiter

Moon Opposition Neptune

Moon Opposition Venus/Mars

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 5th house

Venus Square Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Square Uranus

Venus Sextile Neptune