Macy Gray
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know her inner core, for Macy Gray only trusts and opens herself to a select few. Allowing herself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Gray.

Macy has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Macy Gray has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to herself. It is important for Macy Gray to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express her feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

She is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Macy Gray has a great deal of emotional depth.

Macy Gray has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Macy sometimes lets her emotions overpower her reasoning and logic, and consequently she is sometimes biased in her opinions. Macy Gray is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way she appears. Her feelings are on the surface and Macy cannot hide her emotions.

Some rather acute fears of being excluded, rejected, left out in the cold or separated from loved ones can make Macy Gray either extremely cautious about getting close to people or clingy toward whoever gives her any warmth or security. Macy Gray tends to withhold and clamp down on many of her feelings and craves nurturing and security, perhaps feeling that they are unacceptable or will never be satisfied. Learning to be open and trust others to nurture her is important to her. Her earliest years, especially Gray's relationships with her mother, will determine whether Macy Gray will overcome her fears or retreat behind a mask of self-sufficiency and indifference.

Macy Gray possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand her love partner. Because she values harmony so highly, Macy Gray will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in her relationships. Macy does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".

In love relationships, Macy Gray wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. She is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Macy Gray appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.

Macy Gray often hides her affection, or finds her feelings difficult to express or get across to the person she loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Macy. She may feel her love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Macy Gray may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to her. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Macy Gray - having to give something up to be with the one she loves, or having to relinquish some person or some aspect of an important love relationship.

She is kindhearted and generous with both her money and her affections, and she is not happy if she has to budget or restrict herself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to Macy's nature and Macy Gray feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Gray. Gracious and charitable, she enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. Macy Gray has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. She is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble and idealistic.

Macy Gray has a great rapport with the opposite sex, and love relationships, romance, and passion are absolutely vital to her well-being. It is rare for Macy to go very long without an intimate companion. The physical component of relationships is also very important to Gray. Artistic creations and projects are another way for Macy Gray to channel her passion.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 1st house

Moon Opposition Saturn

Venus in Libra

Venus in 12th house

Venus Conjunct Jupiter

Venus Sextile Mars