Lorna Luft
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Lorna Luft denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Lorna Luft needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Lorna Luft also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.

Lorna Luft may have traveled extensively in her early years, or something in her background may have enabled her to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.

Luft has a craving for things that are far away and foreign, or that she has never experienced before. Lorna Luft wants to completely immerse herself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply acquire facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally as well Lorna is restless and somewhat of a wanderer.

Lorna Luft feels that she must always be doing something, and she becomes impatient and irritable if she has to slow down or wait for anything. A stormy home life may be the result of her own tendency to fight for what she wants, rather than compromise. Lorna may not realize how competitive she is.

Although Luft gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), she also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable Lorna Luft to rein in some of her more aggressive tendencies. This side of her is described below.

Lorna Luft often feels that she must do something or be something other than what she is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. She is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though she may appear cool or distant, Luft actually cares very much about being included. Because she is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Lorna Luft to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises she may endure once she lets others really know her in an intimate, personal way. Her reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Lorna Luft becomes very attached to the few people she considers "real friends". Luft can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if she views them as times to nourish herself and develop her own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

Although Lorna Luft was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Lorna's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

She is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Lorna does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in her personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into her imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. She is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if her sympathy has been aroused. Lorna Luft is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.

Lorna Luft has a strong desire for genuine understanding with others and finds it easy to share her feelings with them. Her feelings toward others are very loving and Lorna is likely to have a lot in common with many of her friends.

She is definitely not one to wear her heart on her sleeve. Lorna Luft cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Luft's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Lorna at all. She is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Lorna Luft is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to her loved one in good times and in bad.

Lorna Luft may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Lorna desires.

Lorna is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show her places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Moreover, Lorna Luft feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

Lorna Luft has artistic interests and may be attracted to people who are artists, are connected with artistic endeavors or interested in art. She is very sociable and feel more at home in beautiful surroundings.

Lorna Luft thinks with both her mind and her heart and she has an unobtrusive, empathic intellect. Luft relates to others in an affable, considerate and thoughtful way and always seem to find the right words at the right time.

Lorna Luft tends to make up her mind quickly in matters of love relationships and affection and may fall in love at first sight. Her expectations about romance can be intense and Lorna is inclined to exaggerate and could have arguments about her loved ones.

Lorna Luft tends to think a lot about art and beauty as well as matters of love relationships and is content with the way things are in her life. She is comfortable in talking to someone about her feelings toward them. Lorna Luft also could find artistic endeavors very rewarding.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 9th house

Moon Conjunct Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Saturn

Moon Square Saturn

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Square Neptune

Moon Conjunct Venus/N. Node

Venus in Capricorn

Venus in 9th house

Venus Conjunct Sun/N. Node

Venus Conjunct Moon/Mercury

Venus Conjunct Mercury/Mars

Venus Conjunct Mercury/MC