Lisa Lopes in Relationships
Lisa Lopes responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around her, and can be dominated by her fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Lopes often appears irrational to others because she cannot always explain the reason or source of her feelings. Anyone who lives with Lisa Lopes must accept her ups and downs and appreciate Lisa's need for times of withdrawal.
Lisa Lopes is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Lisa Lopes takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though she may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, she never forgets it.
Lopes gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through her involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for her. Lisa Lopes makes friends her family, and she feels a close kinship to people who share some ideals or beliefs that she holds dear. Lisa Lopes needs close relationships with people outside of her immediate family.
Her emotional needs are very important to Lisa Lopes and she tends to seek approval and recognition from the people in her immediate world. Lopes will derive more benefit in activities with others than by keeping to her.
In love relationships, Lisa Lopes is steadfast and loyal, especially if she has a warm, demonstrative partner. She is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. Lisa enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. She is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of her loved one. Lisa Lopes responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of her partner is very important to her.
Lisa is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show her places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.
Moreover, Lisa Lopes feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.
She is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in her love relationships - often because Lisa Lopes puts her desires ahead of her partner's, and is impatient to have her love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Lisa Lopes and she is not happy without a love partner. Lopes can "burn herself out" by pouring so much of her energy into romance.
While she may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Lisa Lopes to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Lisa becomes romantically involved with someone, either she or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Lisa Lopes really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if she does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, seemingly random events will wreak havoc in Lisa's closest relationships.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Cancer
Moon in 11th house
Moon Conjunct Sun/Asc.
Venus in Taurus
Venus in 9th house
Venus Square Mars
Venus Quincunx Uranus
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