Linda Lovelace in Relationships
Even-tempered and peace loving, she is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Linda Lovelace has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Lovelace is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in her home life or marriage.
Linda Lovelace seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to her loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Lovelace tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.
A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Linda's well-being, and she has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Linda Lovelace substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.
She is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes her feelings by acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Linda Lovelace cannot hide her instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and she does not make any pretenses about her personal sympathies or antipathies.
Linda Lovelace has a childlike openness and playfulness that is very appealing to others but sometimes gets her into trouble, as Linda takes risks on an impulse or a whim.
There is a side to Linda Lovelace that loves comfort and the easy life, and unless other factors in her chart indicate strong drive and ambition, Lovelace can be lazy and overly permissive with herself. She enjoys being taken care of and pampered, and self-indulgence is always a temptation for Lovelace. If Linda's parents made the unfortunate mistake of indulging her too much as a child, this may be a very hard habit to break. Linda Lovelace can be so softhearted and affectionate that it is hard to say no to her. Eating too many sweets is a vice Linda is particularly prone to.
Her emotional life tends to be a bit strange and she is likely to fantasize a lot and to weave a web of illusions. Easily swayed by the needs of others, Linda Lovelace must learn not to take on others problems and also guard against others deceiving her.
In love relationships, Linda Lovelace seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. She enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Linda, and she is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than her own. Linda Lovelace supports her partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. She also very much wants a partner who will encourage her own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Linda that she have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with her love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Linda Lovelace is not especially sentimental and her love partner may feel that she is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.
Linda Lovelace often hides her affection, or finds her feelings difficult to express or get across to the person she loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Linda. She may feel her love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Linda Lovelace may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to her. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Linda Lovelace - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one she loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.
Linda Lovelace is not a traditionalist where love and relationships are concerned, and she often feels that formal commitments and conventional relationships are too binding and restricting. Thus, Linda is not very comfortable with forming lasting attachments or letting other people depend on her. She may be attracted to wild, unreliable, highly creative and/or unstable people who do not offer her any security. Even if Linda Lovelace professes to want something steady and solid, she is very reluctant to give up her freedom and autonomy for its sake. At best, she is suited to serial monogamy or relationships that leave Lovelace a lot of breathing space.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Taurus
Moon in 5th house
Moon Quincunx Venus
Moon Opposition Neptune/Asc.
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in 12th house
Venus Opposition Uranus
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