Lili Taylor in Relationships
Lili Taylor responds very strongly to the emotional tone and atmosphere around her, and can be dominated by her fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Taylor often appears irrational to others because she cannot always explain the reason or source of her feelings. Anyone who lives with Lili Taylor must accept her ups and downs and appreciate Lili's need for times of withdrawal.
Lili Taylor is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Lili Taylor takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though she may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, she never forgets it.
Lili Taylor has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Lili sometimes lets her emotions overpower her reasoning and logic, and consequently she is sometimes biased in her opinions. Lili Taylor is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way she appears. Her feelings are on the surface and Lili cannot hide her emotions.
Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Lili Taylor gives very selflessly and devotedly to those she loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon her. More compassionate than passionate, Lili Taylor may become romantically involved with a person because she or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.
She is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Lili feels she can have a deep spiritual relationship with. Lili Taylor idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Lili Taylor very happy. Lili wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Lili Taylor may "marry" her work - that is, being more involved in her career than in her private life. Taylor is a natural host or diplomat.
Lili Taylor appreciates beautiful surroundings and congenial company, and though she enjoys helping people, Lili Taylor will rarely put herself out too much in the process. She is good-humored and generous at heart but inclined to be lazy.
Lili's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Lili Taylor is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Taylor is to being left out or unappreciated.
Intimacy does not come easily to Lili Taylor and she may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to her emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in her early life, Taylor does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of her barriers and defenses. She may feel that she has few friends or people that really care about her. Lili Taylor needs to learn to value and love herself more and to express her appreciation for others more openly.
When it comes to love relationships, Taylor is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Lili Taylor has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Lili acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.
Lili Taylor is not a traditionalist where love and relationships are concerned, and she often feels that formal commitments and conventional relationships are too binding and restricting. Thus, Lili is not very comfortable with forming lasting attachments or letting other people depend on her. She may be attracted to wild, unreliable, highly creative and/or unstable people who do not offer her any security. Even if Lili Taylor professes to want something steady and solid, she is very reluctant to give up her freedom and autonomy for its sake. At best, she is suited to serial monogamy or relationships that leave Taylor a lot of breathing space.
Sensitive and compassionate, Taylor tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Lili has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Lili is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.
Her attitude could be a bit too optimistic, especially in regards to love relationships. Lili Taylor loves to day-dream and may have many romantic and erotic imaginations that never materialize. She may have a flair for writing beautiful love poems.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Cancer
Moon in 1st house
Venus in Pisces
Venus in 10th house
Venus Trine Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Conjunct Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Opposition Uranus
Venus Trine Neptune
Venus Opposition Jupiter/Neptune
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