Lia Chang
in Relationships
She is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from her own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if she could turn her feelings on and off at will; Lia should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for she could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to her as they are to most people and Chang often considers her friends closer to her than her blood relatives. Certainly, Chang's sympathy and concern extends much beyond her immediate family. In her personal relationships, Lia Chang insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as she chooses. Lia does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.
Lia Chang feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and she has little taste for convention and tradition.
Lia Chang often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Chang thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Lia is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Lia Chang has good psychological insight into others.
Serious and emotionally reserved, Lia Chang was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and she rarely expresses herself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. She is cautious about letting others get close to her and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, Lia Chang feels lonely or isolated, even when she is with people. Learning to appreciate her own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Lia's emotional well-being.
Lia Chang possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand her love partner. Because she values harmony so highly, Lia Chang will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in her relationships. Lia does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".
In love relationships, Lia Chang wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. She is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Lia Chang appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.
Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Lia Chang very happy. Lia wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Lia Chang may be "married to" her work - namely she may be more involved in her career than in her private life. Chang is a natural host or diplomat.
Money is liable to be an issue in her life, not because she does not have it, but because Lia Chang cannot or will not hold onto it. Lia Chang has a freehanded, generous, open attitude and would prefer to spend and enjoy and partake in the pleasures of the moment than to save, discipline or budget herself. At Chang's worst, she wants an easy ride and friends will often let Lia freeload because she is such an agreeable, friendly and pleasant sort. Alternatively, Chang could let other people take advantage of her hospitality and tolerance.
Chang also avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it is too much trouble or too petty. Lia Chang just wants to have a good time.
Lia's pleasure-loving nature and her emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing her affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Lia Chang is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times she is far more contained as described here. Because she is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Chang is to being left out or unappreciated.
Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Lia Chang in love relationships. She is cautious about giving her heart away but true to the one who does win her love. Her tastes are simple, even austere, and she does not appreciate frivolity. Chang is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in her or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Lia Chang at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for her with time.
She is inclined to do everything with love and may even be in love with her profession. At times Lia Chang is apt to consider her work as a substitute for a partner, but she could also show some narcissistic tendencies.
She is likely to have very strange experiences in love relationships. Lia Chang is inclined to fantasize a lot about love and seems to admire the unattainable. Strongly attracted to the spiritual dimensions of life, she may pursue the study of mystical and occult subjects.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aquarius
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Conjunct Saturn
Venus in Libra
Venus in 10th house
Venus Opposition Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Trine Saturn
Venus Conjunct Mars/MC
Venus Conjunct Neptune/Pluto
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