Leslie Grantham
in Relationships
He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Leslie Grantham rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Grantham's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.
It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Grantham may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Leslie difficult to live with. Leslie Grantham needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.
Grantham depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends who care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Leslie's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them have a powerful impact on his sense of security and happiness. Leslie Grantham may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.
There is a side to Leslie Grantham that loves comfort and the easy life, and unless other factors in his chart indicate strong drive and ambition, Grantham can be lazy and overly permissive with himself. He enjoys being taken care of and pampered, and self-indulgence is always a temptation for Grantham. If Leslie's parents made the unfortunate mistake of indulging him too much as a child, this may be a very hard habit to break. Leslie Grantham can be so softhearted and affectionate that it is hard to say no to him. Eating too many sweets is a vice Leslie is particularly prone to.
Leslie has an optimistic outlook, good intuition and the ability to find and use opportunities to his advantage. His quick understanding of things allows Leslie Grantham to see beyond ordinary limits, and he has the courage to exploit unexpected breaks.
Leslie Grantham tends to be a bit pessimistic and is inclined to feel emotional depressed a lot. Leslie may feel like withdrawing from everything, but should try to listen to others' point of view in order to balance his overly pessimistic views.
Grantham relates to others on an emotional level, because he feels his emotions so strongly yourself. He is sensitive to others' needs and has the ability to create a cozy atmosphere when he is together with another person.
His love feelings and desires are easily aroused but he may find it difficult to sustain his romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Leslie Grantham enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and he does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Leslie wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Grantham is very much aware of his personal appearance, attractiveness and charm, and he can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, Leslie Grantham is concerned with getting along with others and he has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. Leslie uses tact or charm to get what he wants rather than intense effort or force. His desire for love and affection colors everything Leslie Grantham does.
Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Leslie Grantham in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. Grantham is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Leslie Grantham at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.
Leslie Grantham tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem. Gullible, romantic and rather easily seduced, Leslie frequently falls in love with an image in his own mind, which he then projects onto the object of his affections, only to discover later that this person never really had the lovely qualities he endowed her with. Leslie Grantham also confuses love relationships with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", thereby setting himself up to be taken advantage of. He is capable of great devotion to a spiritual cause, for he is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.
He is inclined to be rather quiet and humble and go about his business in a very modest way. Feeling sad frequently, Leslie Grantham does not seem to have much interest in becoming involved in love relationships.
Leslie Grantham treats others in an agreeable, affectionate and tactful way and freely shows his affection for them. His circle of friends is likely to be large and Grantham strives for the development of a strong community spirit.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 7th house
Moon Quincunx Venus
Moon Conjunct Jupiter/Uranus
Moon Conjunct Saturn/Neptune
Moon Opposition N. Node/MC
Venus in Aries
Venus in 1st house
Venus Trine Saturn
Venus Opposition Neptune
Venus Opposition Saturn/MC
Venus Conjunct N. Node/Asc.
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