Lesley-Anne Down in Relationships
She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Lesley-Anne Down rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Down's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.
It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Down may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Lesley-Anne difficult to live with. Lesley-Anne Down needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.
Her own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Lesley-Anne, and it is often difficult for her to share what she is feeling with others.
Lesley-Anne Down frequently withdraws from the world and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of her own world.
Down identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and she wants to help them or care for them in some way.
There is a side to Lesley-Anne Down that loves comfort and the easy life, and unless other factors in her chart indicate strong drive and ambition, Down can be lazy and overly permissive with herself. She enjoys being taken care of and pampered, and self-indulgence is always a temptation for Down. If Lesley-Anne's parents made the unfortunate mistake of indulging her too much as a child, this may be a very hard habit to break. Lesley-Anne Down can be so softhearted and affectionate that it is hard to say no to her. Eating too many sweets is a vice Lesley-Anne is particularly prone to.
She is dedicated to the people she cares about and conscientious about fulfilling her responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Lesley-Anne Down; accordingly, so are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.
Lesley-Anne Down is apt to do more than her fair share in the family and go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to her.
She is very impressionable and extremely sensitive to her surroundings. Lesley-Anne may be especially sensitive to noise as well as bright lights and sunshine. Lesley-Anne Down may also want to learn about the deeper dimensions of life, the occult or mystical things.
Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Lesley-Anne Down enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Lesley-Anne wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.
Lesley-Anne Down craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Lesley-Anne loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Down.
Lesley-Anne Down tends to deprive herself of pleasure, friendship and love, either because she feels she does not deserve it or she thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Down may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else attitude early on. She may also think of herself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close her heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like her. Lesley-Anne Down is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and her shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept herself - including whatever flaws or imperfections Lesley-Anne believes she has - is vital for her. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.
She may be subject to periodic changes of mood, is serious, somewhat somber, and she seems to lack confidence in herself and could have trouble giving of hers. Lesley-Anne Down tends to avoid close relationships, expecting to be disappointed if she lets anyone come too close.
Her association with those around she may have a depressing influence on Lesley-Anne Down causing her to shy away from relationships of any kind. Finding it difficult to express herself emotionally, she is quite likely to become a loner.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 12th house
Moon Quincunx Venus
Moon Sextile Saturn
Moon Conjunct Uranus/Neptune
Venus in Aries
Venus in 8th house
Venus Quincunx Saturn
Venus Opposition Moon/Saturn
Venus Opposition Saturn/Asc.
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