Sarah Chatto
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Sarah Chatto denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Sarah Chatto needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Sarah Chatto also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.

Sarah Chatto has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Lady Sarah Chatto also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For Sarah, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.

She is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. She enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and she sometimes overdoes her generosity. Sarah Chatto often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.

There is another side to Sarah Chatto as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers her good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

She is dedicated to the people she cares about and conscientious about fulfilling her responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Sarah Chatto; accordingly, so are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.

Sarah Chatto is apt to do more than her fair share in the family and go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to her.

She is very ambitious and her energy is based on her feelings. Sarah Chatto may feel that she has to assert herself regardless of the risks that may be involved. Sarah could have considerable tension with others and is not likely to compromise.

In a love relationship, Sarah Chatto is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Sarah likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Sarah Chatto becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Sarah Chatto's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Sarah Chatto needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Lady Sarah Chatto finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

Sarah Chatto often hides her affection, or finds her feelings difficult to express or get across to the person she loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Sarah. She may feel her love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Sarah Chatto may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to her. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Sarah Chatto - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one she loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.

Sarah Chatto has a great rapport with the opposite sex, and love relationships, romance, and passion are absolutely vital to her well being. It is rare for Sarah to go very long without an intimate companion. The physical component of relationships is also very important to Lady Sarah Chatto. Artistic creations and projects are another way for Sarah Chatto to channel her passion.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 6th house

Moon Trine Jupiter

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Sextile Saturn

Moon Opposition Mars/Uranus

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 12th house

Venus Sextile Mars