Kurt Cobain
in Relationships
Kurt Cobain responds very much to the emotional tone and atmosphere around him, and can be dominated by his fluctuating and unpredictable moods. Cobain often appears irrational to others because he cannot always explain the reason or source of his feelings. Anyone who lives with Kurt Cobain must accept his ups and downs and appreciate Kurt's need for times of withdrawal.
Kurt Cobain is also very sympathetic and understands the unspoken feelings and needs of others. Kurt Cobain takes slights and rebuffs very personally and though he may forgive a transgression by a friend or loved one, he never forgets it.
Cobain works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to Kurt, and he may invest more of his emotional energy into his career or public life than in his private life. Providing and caring for others, in a professional capacity is very likely.
His feelings depend on the conditions in his environment and therefore Kurt Cobain could be subject to moods. He is likely to have spiritual or life experiences that touch him deeply. Kurt Cobain could also become involved in situations where others take advantage of him.
Kurt has an affectionate, warm-hearted, congenial and fun loving nature, and his emotional impulses are quite strong. Forming relationships with others is important to Kurt Cobain and he may have an early desire for marriage.
His emotional flow seems to be blocked in some way and Cobain may feel inhibited when he is with others. Kurt Cobain is likely to have a certain fear of crowds and may have a tendency to be agoraphobic.
Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, Kurt Cobain gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, Kurt Cobain may become romantically involved with someone because they need love and he wants to help them, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.
He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone Kurt feels he can have deep spiritual relationships with. Kurt Cobain idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.
Cobain is a very personable, affectionate, loving friend and will always have many people in his relationships that love and cherish him. Kurt Cobain prefers being with others rather than on his own, and he feels very incomplete without a special person in his life to share his love with. Being half of a close, loving relationship is very important to Kurt.
Kurt is a peacemaker, the one who adapts, harmonizes, and makes concessions for the sake of the relationship. His charm and agreeableness makes Kurt Cobain very popular.
Kurt Cobain appreciates beautiful surroundings and congenial company, and though he enjoys helping people, Kurt Cobain will rarely put himself out too much in order to do so. He is good-humored and generous at heart but inclined to be lazy.
Kurt's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Kurt Cobain is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Cobain is to being left out or unappreciated.
Intimacy does not come easily to Kurt Cobain and he may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to his emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in his early life, Cobain does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to take down all of his barriers and defenses. He may feel that he has few friends or people that really care about him. Kurt Cobain needs to learn to value and love himself more and to express his appreciation for others more openly.
When it comes to love relationships, Cobain is apt to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and for security in his relationships, Kurt Cobain has an impulsive side and need a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Kurt acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.
Kurt Cobain is not a traditionalist where love and relationships are concerned, and he often feels that formal commitments and conventional relationships are too binding and life-denying. Thus, forming lasting attachments or letting other people depend upon him is not very comfortable for Cobain. He may be attracted to wild, unreliable, highly creative and/or unstable people who do not offer him any security. Even if Kurt Cobain professes to want something steady and solid, he is very reluctant to give up his freedom and autonomy for it. At best, Kurt is suited to serial monogamy, or relationships that offers Cobain a lot of breathing room.
Sensitive and compassionate, Cobain tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Kurt has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that are beyond ego needs and selfishness. Kurt is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Cancer
Moon in 10th house
Moon Opposition Sun/Neptune
Moon Opposition Venus/Mars
Moon Conjunct Pluto/N. Node
Venus in Pisces
Venus in 7th house
Venus Trine Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Conjunct Saturn
Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus
Venus Opposition Uranus
Venus Trine Neptune
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