Kendra Jade
in Relationships

Even-tempered and peace loving, she is not easily ruffled and is rarely given to emotional displays. Kendra Jade has a calming effect on more high-strung or volatile people, and an emotional steadiness that others find soothing. Though gentle and not easily provoked, Jade is tremendously stubborn and resists any change that requires an emotional adjustment, such as changes in her home life or marriage.

Kendra Jade seeks security and loyalty in love relationships, is extremely devoted to her loved ones and provides a warm, nurturing atmosphere for them. However, Jade tends to cling to others and prevent them from changing.

A great deal of physical affection, closeness and touching is crucial to Kendra's well-being, and she has a tendency to overindulge in sensual comforts and pleasures. At times Kendra Jade substitutes food for emotional comfort and love.

Jade works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to Kendra, and she may invest more of her emotional energy into her career or public life than in her private life. She is likely to be engaged in providing and caring for others in a professional capacity.

Kendra Jade often feels that she must do something or be something other than what she is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. She is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though she may appear cool or distant, Jade actually cares very much about being included. Because she is so sensitive, it may seem easier for Kendra Jade to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises she may endure once she lets others really know her in an intimate, personal way. Her reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and Kendra Jade becomes very attached to the few people she considers "real friends". Jade can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if she views them as times to nourish herself and develop her own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.

In addition to Kendra's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Kendra Jade craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Jade rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

Her childhood and early home life was in many ways unsettling, and the nurturing Jade received was erratic and unreliable at best. Kendra Jade has had to move a lot, or Jade's family may have been blatantly different from other people so that Kendra was often deemed an outsider or a "weirdo". As an adult, Kendra Jade may long for "normalcy" while at the same time she balks at any routine, structure, formality or restrictions.

Kendra Jade often becomes nervous or shaky when emotionally stressed. Developing a regular rhythm and a steady, consistent (if not traditional) way of life would be beneficial to Jade, both emotionally and physically.

Highly sensitive and rather easily taken in, Kendra Jade needs to beware of deceiving herself and allowing others to take advantage of her impressionability or gentleness. Daydreaming, fantasizing or other forms of imaginative, escapist behavior (such as watching television excessively or living her life through romance novels) could be something of an addiction for Jade. Kendra Jade tends to confuse images with reality and needs to learn to be more circumspect and discriminating. Disenchantment with women and close relationships could ensue as a result.

Powerful and complex emotions stir Kendra Jade, and her emotional life and closest personal relationships are liable to be tumultuous until Kendra does some deep soul searching. Buried feelings and memories that she does not want to deal with may surface at unexpected times. Holding in fears, secrets or "taboo" thoughts and feelings can only intensify them, and Kendra Jade needs to share them with someone who is sympathetic, trustworthy and fairly objective. Ridding herself of emotional compulsions and deeply embedded patterns that do not serve her can be tremendously liberating if Kendra Jade is willing to do the necessary inner house cleaning.

She is subject to strange emotional experiences which could relate to the supernatural. Very sensitive, Kendra Jade immediately responds to every influence, resulting in frequent changes of mood. She may be interested in the occult, psychic studies and spiritualism.

Her love feelings and desires are easily aroused but she may find it difficult to sustain her romantic interest in relationships after the initial, exciting "chase and conquest". Kendra Jade enjoys a dynamic partner with a strong independent streak, and she does not like things to become too peaceful or predictable in the love arena. Kendra wants to see sparks fly once in awhile, even if it means instigating a fight.

Kendra is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show her places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.

Moreover, Kendra Jade feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.

Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Kendra Jade in love relationships. She is cautious about giving her heart away but true to the one who does win her love. Her tastes are simple, even austere, and she does not appreciate frivolity. Jade is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in her or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Kendra Jade at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for her with time.

When it comes to love relationships, Jade is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to her desire for depth and security in her relationships, Kendra Jade has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if Kendra acts on her spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on her personal life.

While she may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for Kendra Jade to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When Kendra becomes romantically involved with someone, either she or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because Kendra Jade really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if she does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, seemingly random events will wreak havoc in Kendra's closest relationships.

Intimate relationships are the arena in which Kendra Jade explores the depths she is capable of. She could fall intensely and fanatically in love and be obsessive, extraordinarily jealous or deeply involved with her partners. Jade will experience both heaven and hell in her closest relationships. There is undoubtedly a peculiarly karmic, fated quality to these relationships, which - though difficult - will teach Kendra Jade things about herself and about love that she could not learn in any other way. Jade will often enter relationships which she realizes - rationally - will be very difficult, yet she cannot resist them, nonetheless. Kendra Jade needs not to avoid berating herself for these "bad" choices; instead, she needs to learn what she can from them.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Taurus

Moon in 10th house

Moon Square Saturn

Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus

Moon Opposition Uranus

Moon Quincunx Neptune

Moon Quincunx Pluto

Moon Opposition Neptune/Pluto

Venus in Aries

Venus in 9th house

Venus Trine Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Quincunx Uranus

Venus Opposition Pluto