Kaylani Lei
in Relationships

Kaylani does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and she is often unaware of her own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder her and make her very uncomfortable. Kaylani Lei would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but she tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe her own or others' inner depths.

Kaylani Lei avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.

She needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom she can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Lei. The strong, silent partner is not for her.

Lei depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and she has a large "family" of friends who care about her and treat her as kin. The women in Kaylani's life are particularly important to her, and her relationships with them have a powerful impact on her sense of security and happiness. Kaylani Lei may be overly dependent and unsure of herself without a close partner.

She is very impressionable and extremely sensitive to her surroundings. Kaylani may be especially sensitive to noise as well as bright lights and sunshine. Kaylani Lei may also want to learn about the deeper dimensions of life, the occult or mystical things.

In a love relationship, Kaylani Lei is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Kaylani likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Kaylani Lei becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Kaylani Lei's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Kaylani Lei needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Lei finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

Kaylani Lei craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Kaylani loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from her partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Lei.

She is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy herself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Kaylani Lei rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in her early life, Kaylani is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing her feelings. Though Lei craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for her. She may become romantically involved with people who do not value her or treat her well. Kaylani Lei needs to learn to love and value herself before she finds happiness in love.

Kaylani Lei thinks with both her mind and her heart and she has an unobtrusive, empathic intellect. Lei relates to others in an affable, considerate and thoughtful way and always seem to find the right words at the right time.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 7th house

Moon Opposition Uranus/Neptune

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 8th house

Venus Square Saturn

Venus Conjunct Moon/Mercury