Kate Fleming
in Relationships

She is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from her own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if she could turn her feelings on and off at will; Kate should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for she could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to her as they are to most people and Fleming often considers her friends closer to her than her blood relatives. Certainly, Fleming's sympathy and concern extends much beyond her immediate family. In her personal relationships, Kate Fleming insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as she chooses. Kate does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

Kate Fleming feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and she has little taste for convention and tradition.

Kate Fleming often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because she has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Fleming thinks she is being rational, her prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence her thoughts a great deal. Kate is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with her as well. Kate Fleming has good psychological insight into others.

Kate has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate her personal life and relationships. She may feel that she cannot depend on her love partner to take care of her or perhaps Fleming cannot decide what she really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If her needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.

She is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Kate Fleming tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if her desires are frustrated. Kate Fleming becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if she lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for her aggressive, feisty spirit.

Although she is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Kate Fleming also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, she is usually a good sport.

She is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. She enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and she sometimes overdoes her generosity. Kate Fleming often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.

Kate Fleming seems to have the wrong conception of the world around her and may suffer disappointments frequently. It is difficult for Kate to adapt herself and to acquire a community spirit, and she cannot achieve the inner understanding with others that she longs for.

In love relationships, Kate Fleming desires a deep, intense and passionate union with her beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Kate "marries" the person she loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Fleming can be very demanding of her love partner. Kate Fleming tends to be somewhat suspicious of her partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If she is ever betrayed, Kate Fleming is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as she once loved. She is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Kate Fleming often hides her affection, or finds her feelings difficult to express or get across to the person she loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Kate. She may feel her love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Kate Fleming may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to her. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Kate Fleming - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one she loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.

Kate Fleming is extremely amorous and it is difficult for her to go without romantic relationships for very long. When she is attracted to someone, Kate Fleming pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy her very strong desire for love and beauty.

Kate Fleming has a propensity for clandestine and secret love affairs and tends to keep her relationships hidden. Kate could find herself in some peculiar relationships where she or her partner could be reluctant to make an external commitment.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 3rd house

Moon Square Venus

Moon Square Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter

Moon Trine Jupiter

Moon Opposition Neptune/N. Node

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 12th house

Venus Conjunct Mars

Venus Conjunct Mars/Neptune