Julian Adderley (Cannonball)
in Relationships
His desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that he avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Julian "Cannonball" Adderley is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. He is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from him, and befriend many different types of people. He is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Julian "Cannonball" Adderley is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with himself than others would ever guess based on his flawless disposition.
Though he wants close relationships very much, Julian "Cannonball" Adderley often closes himself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know him. Julian Adderley is very wholehearted in his feelings and responses to people, and he wants all or nothing from the people he cares for.
No matter how he appears on the surface, Julian "Cannonball" Adderley has a very soft heart and others can always appeal to Cannonball's sympathetic, affectionate side. He especially cares about the needs of children, mothers and families, and he wants a love partner who values marriage, home and family as much as he does. Julian Adderley is profoundly offended by unkindness or harshness.
He is dedicated to the people he cares about and conscientious about meeting his responsibilities, especially to family. Family solidarity and cohesiveness are very important to Julian "Cannonball" Adderley and so, therefore, are the traditions, rituals, and memories that keep the bonds strong.
Julian "Cannonball" Adderley is apt to do more than his fair share in the family, to go the extra mile, but for the most part this is satisfying rather than burdensome to him.
Cannonball has intense desires and feelings and his personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Julian "Cannonball" Adderley has powerful magnetic relationships with those he cares about, and he could become emotionally obsessed by another person. His feelings can become so urgent and compelling that he behaves irrationally. Julian "Cannonball" Adderley undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when he must break all ties with the past and begin anew.
Julian "Cannonball" Adderley has a good perception and feeling of beauty and may have a talent for painting or drawing. Julian "Cannonball" Adderley has a magnetic charm and is refined and calm when he is with people. Cannonball has the ability to win people over by what he says and how he says it.
Julian "Cannonball" Adderley seems to float above reality and has a very intense imagination. Cannonball likes to daydream and is apt to have many wishes and illusions that rarely have a chance to materialize. He is guided by his feelings and seems to live in a world of his own.
Julian "Cannonball" Adderley possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so highly, Julian "Cannonball" Adderley will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. Cannonball does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".
In love relationships, Julian "Cannonball" Adderley wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Julian "Cannonball" Adderley appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.
Julian "Cannonball" Adderley craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. Cannonball loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Julian Adderley.
In love relationships and romance, it is important for Julian "Cannonball" Adderley to be able to deeply respect his partner. Cannonball looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before he lets himself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off to him. Julian "Cannonball" Adderley is capable of mature, lasting loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. He may be drawn to someone older than him.
Julian "Cannonball" Adderley experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. Julian "Cannonball" Adderley has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, Julian "Cannonball" Adderley can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.
Julian "Cannonball" Adderley thinks with both his mind and his heart and he has an unobtrusive, empathic intellect. Julian Adderley relates to others in an affable, considerate and thoughtful way and always seem to find the right words at the right time.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Libra
Moon in 8th house
Moon Conjunct Venus
Moon Sextile Saturn
Moon Square Pluto
Moon Conjunct Mercury/Venus
Moon Conjunct Neptune/MC
Venus in Libra
Venus in 8th house
Venus Sextile Saturn
Venus Square Pluto
Venus Conjunct Moon/Mercury
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