Judi Dench
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Judi Dench denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Judi Dench needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Judi Dench also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.

Her own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Judi, and it is often difficult for her to share with others what she is feeling.

Judi Dench frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of hers.

Dench identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and she wants to help them or care for them in some way.

She is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Judi Dench cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and she can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Dench's motto.

Judi Dench craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, she may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Judi Dench to make or keep commitments, since she does not know how she will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Dench. Her domestic life may be very unstable - but Dench likes it that way.

Her intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Judi Dench that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. She may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and Dench's neediness often drives others away. When Judi Dench does let herself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses she suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt she endured. She may also reenact these situations in her present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. Dench will do a lot of cleansing if she can listen to what her feelings are telling her. If not, Judi Dench will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.

She is likely to be noted for her good looks and good taste in clothes. Judi Dench is able to attract and influence others because she is so pleasant and so sincere in her approach. Having an innate parental instinct, Dench also is strongly attached to her home and family.

In love relationships, Judi Dench seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. She enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Judi, and she is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than her own. Judi Dench supports her partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. She also very much wants a partner who will encourage her own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Judi that she have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with her love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Judi Dench is not especially sentimental and her love partner may feel that she is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Judi Dench very happy. Judi wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Judi Dench may "marry" her work - that is, being more involved in her career than in her private life. Dench is a natural host or diplomat.

In love relationships and romance, it is important for Judi Dench to be able to deeply respect her partner. Judi looks beyond the superficial qualities to see their inner worth (or lack thereof), before she lets herself really fall for someone. In fact, too much glamour or flashiness is something of a turn-off to her. Judi Dench is capable of mature, lasting loving relationships and seeks a mate who is deep, loyal, and committed. She may be drawn to someone older than her.

Her attitude is positive and harmonious and Judi Dench impresses others as a very caring individual. She is very friendly and pleasant when she is with other people and knows how to make herself popular. She is likely to have a very happy family life.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 12th house

Moon Trine Mars

Moon Square Uranus

Moon Opposition Pluto

Moon Conjunct Venus/Asc.

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 10th house

Venus Sextile Saturn

Venus Conjunct Jupiter/N. Node