Josh Homme
in Relationships

Open and generous, Josh Homme enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Homme rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Josh always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Josh Homme often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.

Friendship means a great deal to Homme, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Josh Homme to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage Josh's aspirations and ideals. Josh Homme also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.

Josh has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage and family traditions. In fact, Josh Homme may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Homme's ties to his mother are very strong and Josh also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members.

He needs love, affection, nurturing and enjoys being pampered - all of which is fine, as long as Josh Homme is willing to give as well as receive the attention and "babying". Josh has a rather childish dependency on loved ones, which can make him cling to them, or be very uncomfortable with any conflict that could conceivably lead to separation. Creating a loving family is certainly a challenge for Josh - one that can be enormously satisfying if he can achieve it, and a source of great sadness if he cannot.

He is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Josh Homme tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if his desires are frustrated. Josh Homme becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if he lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for his aggressive, feisty spirit.

Although Josh Homme was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Josh's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

He is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. Josh Homme often retreats into his own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, he will not fight or assert himself, even when he needs to. Josh Homme is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.

Josh has very deep feelings and profound attachments to people he cares about. His relationships to his mother, sisters, daughters, and other females in his life are likely to be incredibly close and intense. Furthermore, Josh Homme may easily be manipulated too when it comes to one of these important relationships because he is so emotionally invested in it.

Josh Homme has a very attractive personality and loves to socialize. Because of this he is very popular, especially with the opposite sex. Josh Homme also has a sense of beauty and may be interested in some kind of artistic work or hobby.

Emotionally, he is very vulnerable and tends to have his feelings hurt quite easily. He is very impressionable and inclined to suffer states of melancholy or depression. Josh Homme may choose a profession where he is allowed to be his own boss.

In a love relationship, Josh Homme is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Josh likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps him guessing and Josh Homme becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises him. It is very important to Josh Homme's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Josh Homme needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Homme finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.

Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Josh Homme very happy. Josh wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Josh Homme may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Homme is a natural host or diplomat.

He is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in his love relationships - often because Josh Homme puts his desires ahead of his partner's, and is impatient to have his love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Josh Homme and he is not happy without a love partner. Homme can "burn himself out" by pouring so much of his energy into romance.

Josh Homme tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem. Gullible, romantic and rather easily seduced, Josh frequently falls in love with an image in his own mind, which he then projects onto the object of his affections, only to discover later that this person never really had the lovely qualities he endowed her with. Josh Homme also confuses love relationships with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", thereby setting himself up to be taken advantage of. He is capable of great devotion to a spiritual cause, for he is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.

Josh Homme loves deeply, passionately and wholeheartedly, and others may find his intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. He is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional impact on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Homme may use his attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.

Chronically discontented, he is likely to be somewhat unstable in matters of love relationships and affection. Josh Homme tends to be on the defensive and fear rejection and lack of acceptance. Josh has to learn to overcome his fears and general shyness with people.

Josh has the ability to share the abundance of love he feels with many people. But there also is a very strong self-indulgent streak in Homme, and he has to be careful not to eat or drink too much and feel bad as a result of it.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Sagittarius

Moon in 4th house

Moon Opposition Venus

Moon Square Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Conjunct Neptune

Moon Sextile Pluto

Moon Opposition Sun/Venus

Moon Opposition Saturn/MC

Venus in Gemini

Venus in 10th house

Venus Square Mars

Venus Opposition Neptune

Venus Trine Pluto

Venus Conjunct Mercury/Saturn

Venus Opposition Jupiter/Pluto