Jose Arguelles
in Relationships
Tenderhearted and sympathetic to an unusual degree, Jose Arguelles has an understanding of other people's feelings and needs which borders on telepathy. Jose Arguelles is extremely compassionate and cannot bear to see any fellow creature - human or animal - suffer. Because of his kindness and nonjudgmental attitude, people suffering from pain or confusion are drawn to Arguelles for help, which he readily gives. Sometimes Arguelles' soft-heartedness is taken advantage of.
He is a gentle, poetic soul and has a great love and affinity for music. Because many of his feelings are vague and he cannot easily verbalize how he experiences life, music seems a natural language for Arguelles. He is also extremely romantic and often "in love with love".
Though he wants close relationships very much, Jose Arguelles often closes himself off and does not really trust others who may wish to get to know him. Arguelles is very wholehearted in his feelings and responses to people, and he wants all or nothing from the people he cares for.
He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Jose Arguelles cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Arguelles' motto.
Although Jose Arguelles was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Jose's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
Emotionally he is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If he is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, Jose Arguelles flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring him down. His emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. Jose Arguelles feels what others feel, and physically he is very open and impressionable. Standing up for himself, saying no when he wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for Jose Arguelles to learn. Jose Arguelles should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.
Emotionally excitable, Arguelles tends to act impulsively and make rash decisions without thinking of the consequences. Others may see Jose as an eccentric, somewhat selfish and unpredictable. Jose Arguelles seems to attract sudden upsetting experiences.
He is subject to changing moods and tends to alternate between associating with others and being completely alone, seeking to regenerate himself in solitude. Jose Arguelles seems to be too critical of himself and tends to generate distance from others.
His emotional flow seems to be blocked in some way and Arguelles may feel inhibited when he is with others. Jose Arguelles is likely to have a certain fear of crowds and may have a tendency to be agoraphobic.
In love relationships, Jose Arguelles seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Jose, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. Jose Arguelles supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Jose that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Jose Arguelles is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.
Jose Arguelles loves romance and wishes that the honeymoon phase of his love relationships would last forever! Arguelles needs dramatic romantic gestures and displays of affection from his partner, and he wants to feel very, very special, like a royalty, to his beloved. Jose Arguelles also has an artistic flair and he enjoys creating art or beauty in some form.
Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Jose Arguelles in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. Arguelles is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Jose Arguelles at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Pisces
Moon in 8th house
Moon Trine Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Opposition Neptune
Moon Conjunct Sun/Uranus
Moon Conjunct Jupiter/Saturn
Moon Opposition Pluto/N. Node
Venus in Sagittarius
Venus in 5th house
Venus Trine Saturn
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