Jon Foster in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Jon Foster only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Foster.
Jon has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Jon Foster has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Jon Foster to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Jon Foster has a great deal of emotional depth.
Jon Foster has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Jon sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Jon Foster is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he comes across. Jon wears his heart on his sleeves and cannot hide his emotions.
Generally sunny and optimistic, Jon Foster has a cheering effect on those around him. Jon likes and needs people, and others genuinely like him too. He enjoys a wide circle of friends who are like family to him. Entertaining, partying, social activities, and fellowship are essential to his emotional well-being.
There is another side to Jon Foster as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
Serious and emotionally reserved, Jon Foster was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and he rarely expresses himself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. He is cautious about letting others get close to him and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, Jon Foster feels lonely or isolated, even when he is with people. Learning to appreciate his own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to Jon's emotional well-being.
Jon Foster thinks big and is insatiably curious. He is interested in many fields, is talkative and a pleasant conversationalist. Kind, easy-going and optimistic, Foster has good comprehension and excellent command of language.
Warmhearted and generous in love relationships, Jon Foster cannot tolerate pettiness or stinginess in his partner. Jon wants a hero to idolize and adore, someone to wholeheartedly admire and be proud of. Jon Foster is tremendously loyal and devoted once he gives his heart to someone.
Jon Foster craves love, appreciation and attention from others and hates to be ignored. He is rather susceptible to flattery and loves to feel special. Foster enjoys a touch of drama and color in his love relationships and he is impressed by grand romantic gestures or extravagant expressions of generosity.
Foster is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Jon Foster thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.
He is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in his love relationships - often because Jon Foster puts his desires ahead of his partner's, and is impatient to have his love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Jon Foster and he is not happy without a love partner. Foster can "burn himself out" by pouring so much of his energy into romance.
Sensitive and compassionate, Foster tends to be the "giver" in any relationship. Jon has high ideals and a refined attitude towards love relationships, seeking to relate in ways that go beyond egotistical and selfish needs. Jon is attracted to people with artistic or mystical inclinations.
Jon Foster has a good understanding of his own needs but also is genuinely interested in other people. Others are attracted to Foster because of his gentle, kind and friendly manner and he may feel especially drawn to young people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 1st house
Moon Sextile Jupiter
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Conjunct Saturn
Moon Conjunct Mercury/Jupiter
Venus in Leo
Venus in 11th house
Venus Square Mars
Venus Trine Neptune
Venus Conjunct Sun/Mercury
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