Johnny Zander
in Relationships

His desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that he avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Johnny Zander is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. He is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from him, and befriend many different types of people. He is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Johnny Zander is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with himself than others would ever guess based on his flawless disposition.

Johnny Zander often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Zander thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Johnny is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Johnny Zander has good psychological insight into others.

Sensitive and sentimental, Johnny Zander is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Zander to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Johnny Zander seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Johnny likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.

Zander is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Johnny Zander thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.

Johnny Zander is extremely amorous and it is difficult for him to go without romantic relationships for very long. When he is attracted to someone, Johnny Zander pursues her very ardently and sometimes comes on too strong. Being engaged in creative or artistic work can also satisfy his very strong desire for love and beauty.

Money is liable to be an issue in his life, not because he does not have it, but because Johnny Zander cannot or will not hold onto it. Johnny Zander has a freehanded, generous, open attitude and would prefer to spend and enjoy and partake in the pleasures of the moment than to save, discipline or budget himself. At Zander's worst, he wants an easy ride and friends will often let Johnny freeload because he is such an agreeable, friendly and pleasant sort. Alternatively, Zander could let other people take advantage of his hospitality and tolerance.

Zander also avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it is too much trouble or too petty. Johnny Zander just wants to have a good time.

It is absolutely essential for Johnny Zander not to deceive himself when it comes to love relationships, romance, or the true nature of others. Johnny tends to be in love with love, and can be incredibly naive and easily seduced. Confusion, disappointments, and regrettable mistakes in both emotional and financial matters may ensue. On the other hand, it is also possible that Johnny Zander will use his attractiveness or charm to deceive others. Clarity, directness, honesty and realism regarding romantic relationships and people in general need to be developed.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Libra

Moon in 3rd house

Venus in Cancer

Venus in 11th house

Venus Conjunct Mars

Venus Opposition Jupiter

Venus Quincunx Neptune