John Wayne in Relationships
Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for John Wayne trusts and opens himself to very few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Wayne.
John has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. John Wayne has a nasty habit of holding on to past hurts, resentments, and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for John Wayne to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.
He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. John Wayne has a great deal of emotional depth.
John has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage, and family traditions. In fact, John Wayne may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Wayne's tie to his mother is very strong and John Wayne also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members as well.
Wayne is rambunctious and a little rowdy at times, and he enjoys sharing this kind of energy with his friends. Making noise, cheering at a football game, or even getting into a friendly fight all seem like a good time to him. In fact, John Wayne needs to do these things or otherwise he gets crabby.
Although Wayne gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure which enables John Wayne to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.
John Wayne has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional traumas and stress. He keeps perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Wayne would react more intensely. John is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.
Powerful and complex emotions stir John Wayne, and his emotional life and closest personal relationships are apt to be tumultuous until John does some deep soul searching. Buried feelings and memories that he does not want to deal with may surface at unexpected times. Holding in fears, secrets, or "taboo" thoughts and feelings can only serve to intensify them, and John Wayne needs to share them with someone who is sympathetic, trustworthy, and fairly objective. Ridding himself of emotional compulsions and deeply embedded patterns that do not serve him can be tremendously liberating, if John Wayne is willing to do the necessary inner house cleaning.
John Wayne has a good perception and feeling of beauty and may have a talent for painting or drawing. John Wayne has a magnetic charm and is refined and calm when he is with people. John has the ability to win people over by what he says and how he says it.
In love relationships, John Wayne is steadfast and loyal, especially if he has a warm, demonstrative partner. He is very sensually oriented and needs lots of touching and physical affection. John enjoys being pampered with a good meal, loving massage, or other sensual delights. He is a wonderful lover, very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of the one he loves. John Wayne is tremendously responsive to beauty and physical appearances, and the physical attractiveness of his partner is very important to him.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make John Wayne very happy. John wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. John Wayne may "marry" his work - that is, being more involved in his career than in his private life. Wayne is a natural host or diplomat.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Scorpio
Moon in 4th house
Moon Sextile Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon Trine Saturn
Moon Quincunx Pluto
Moon Opposition Mercury/Venus
Venus in Taurus
Venus in 10th house
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