John Mayer
in Relationships

Open and generous, John Mayer enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Mayer rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, John always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. John Mayer often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.

Friendship means a great deal to Mayer, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For John Mayer to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage John's aspirations and ideals. John Mayer also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.

His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to John, and it is often difficult for him to share with others what he is feeling.

John Mayer frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his.

Mayer identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.

He is a sensitive soul and a dreamer who is very much attuned to the world of imagination and fantasy. John Mayer often retreats into his own inner world in order to escape the harshness of everyday living in the "real world". Gentle and often rather passive as well, he will not fight or assert himself, even when he needs to. John Mayer is very sympathetic and somewhat naive emotionally and must guard against being taken advantage of.

John has very deep feelings and profound attachments to people he cares about. His relationships to his mother, sisters, daughters, and other females in his life are apt to be incredibly close and intense. John Mayer may be easily manipulated too, when it comes to one of these important relationships, because he is so emotionally invested in it.

He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. John Mayer is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. John Mayer also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.

John is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show Mayer places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Also, John Mayer feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

His personal relationships are very affectionate. John enjoys the company of other people and has a harmonious attitude toward them. John Mayer also has a sense of art and may decorate his surroundings very artistically.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Sagittarius

Moon in 12th house

Moon Conjunct Neptune

Moon Sextile Pluto

Venus in Virgo

Venus in 9th house

Venus Conjunct Jupiter/Asc.