John Kerry
in Relationships
John does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. John Kerry would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.
John Kerry avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.
He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Kerry. The strong, silent partner is not for him.
Kerry depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends that care about him and treat him as kin. The women in John's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them powerfully influence his sense of security and happiness. John Kerry may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.
John Kerry feels that he must always be doing something, and he becomes impatient and irritable if he has to slow down or wait for anything. A stormy home life may be the result of his own tendency to fight for what he wants, rather than compromise. John may not realize how competitive he is.
Although Kerry gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable John Kerry to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.
Serious and emotionally reserved, John Kerry was probably never an exuberant, playful child, and he rarely expresses himself in a spontaneous, childlike manner. He is cautious about letting others get close to him and sometimes withdraws from people altogether. At times, John Kerry feels lonely or isolated, even when he is with people. Learning to appreciate his own company and find satisfying solitary activities is essential to John's emotional well-being.
His emotional needs are very important to John Kerry and he tends to seek approval and recognition from the people in his immediate world. Kerry will derive more benefit in activities with others than by keeping to him.
His will tends to be a bit weak and he seems to lack courage. Somewhat slow to take action, John Kerry thinks that he will fail because of his inadequacies as a person. He keeps his feelings to himself and should guard against depression and pessimism.
In love relationships, John Kerry desires a deep, intense and passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. John "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Kerry can be very demanding of his love partner. John Kerry tends to be somewhat suspicious of his partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If he is ever betrayed, John Kerry is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make John Kerry very happy. John wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. John Kerry may "marry" his work - that is, being more involved in his career than in his private life. Kerry is a natural host or diplomat.
While he may seek loving relationships and an "everlasting" love, this is not easy for John Kerry to find - or more precisely, to sustain. When John becomes romantically involved with someone, either he or the other person will create rifts once a certain level of comfort and predictability has been achieved. Even if there is no outward break in the relationship, a certain emotional aloofness or dissatisfaction is apt to develop. This is because John Kerry really wants both closeness and absolute freedom - a combination that is difficult to attain. However, if he does not at least attempt to honestly fulfill both of these urges, events seemingly out of the blue will wreak havoc in John's closest relationships.
John Kerry experiences powerful, compelling emotional and sexual attractions, and he may feel that he has little choice or control over his desires. John Kerry has an intense need for love and may be emotionally greedy or insatiable. His love relationships are passionate and often tumultuous and painful as well. Jealousy, power struggles or possessiveness can become areas of conflict in his relationships. On the positive side, John Kerry can be unusually creative and bring about beneficial and healing changes in the lives of others, motivated by his deeply felt love.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Gemini
Moon in 7th house
Moon Conjunct Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon Conjunct Saturn
Moon Opposition Sun/Asc.
Moon Conjunct Mars/Saturn
Venus in Scorpio
Venus in 10th house
Venus Quincunx Uranus
Venus Square Pluto
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