John Keats
in Relationships

John does not appear to be an intensely emotional or sentimental person, and he is often unaware of his own or other people's deeper feelings and emotional needs. Tears and tantrums bewilder him and make him very uncomfortable. John Keats would rather settle differences by talking things out reasonably and rationally, but he tends to ignore or poke fun at any attempt to probe his own or others' inner depths.

John Keats avoids heavy, demanding emotional relationships and is wary of making personal commitments.

He needs ample mental stimulation and feels close to people with whom he can share thoughts and intellectual interests. Conversation is very important to Keats. The strong, silent partner is not for him.

John Keats has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. Keats also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For John, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts of some kind.

He is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. John Keats tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if his desires are frustrated. John Keats becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if he lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for his aggressive, feisty spirit.

He enjoys emotional intensity and is attracted to the mysterious, the unknown, and dangerous or challenging experiences that draw on all of his inner resources. He is able to handle an emotional crisis very well and is interested in the underlying root of emotional problems and how to cure them. John Keats insists on bringing feelings between people out into the open, for he craves real closeness and intimacy in his relationships, without barriers or secrets.

In love relationships, John Keats desires a deep, intense and passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. John "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Keats can be very demanding of his love partner. John Keats tends to be somewhat suspicious of his partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If he is ever betrayed, John Keats is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

John is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.

Moreover, John Keats feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.

John Keats tends to deprive himself of pleasure, friendship and love, either because he feels he does not deserve it or he thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Keats may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else attitude early on. He may also think of himself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close his heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like him. John Keats is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and his shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept himself - including whatever flaws or imperfections John believes he has - is vital for him. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.

He is very romantic, idealistic and imaginative about love relationships. John Keats yearns for his "true love" or "soul mate" and may become disappointed in those who never quite live up to his dream image of the perfect lover. Keats frequently fantasizes about love and often falls in love with someone he can only love from afar. He may avoid making a definite personal commitment. Gentle and sensitive, John Keats does not like to be approached in a very direct or aggressive manner. He is attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Gemini

Moon in 6th house

Moon Square Mars

Moon Trine Pluto

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 9th house

Venus Quincunx Saturn

Venus Conjunct Neptune