John Hodiak
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. John Hodiak denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". John Hodiak needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. John Hodiak also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.

John has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage and family traditions. In fact, John Hodiak may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Hodiak's ties to his mother are very strong and John also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members.

John Hodiak takes offense rather quickly and his instincts are to fight, defend or act first, and ask questions later. He has a tendency for impatience, irritability and outbursts of temper, especially in response to minor frustrations. When he is not actively involved, he is not comfortable. John Hodiak actually prefers a rather rambunctious, feisty, competitive atmosphere to a peaceful one.

Although John Hodiak was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow John's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.

Emotionally he is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If he is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, John Hodiak flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring him down. His emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. John Hodiak feels what others feel, and physically he is very open and impressionable. Standing up for himself, saying no when he wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for John Hodiak to learn. John Hodiak should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.

He is likely to be noted for his good looks and good taste in clothes. John Hodiak is able to attract and influence others because he is so pleasant and so sincere in his approach. Having an innate parental instinct, Hodiak also is strongly attached to his home and family.

In love relationships, John Hodiak is steadfast and loyal, especially if he has a warm, demonstrative partner. He is very sensual in nature and craves plenty of touching and physical affection. John enjoys being pampered with a good meal, a loving massage or other sensual delights. He is a wonderful lover who is very attentive to the comfort and enjoyment of his loved one. John Hodiak responds intensely to beauty and physical appearance, and the physical attractiveness of his partner is very important to him.

John Hodiak craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. John loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Hodiak.

His love feelings are easily aroused and his romantic relationships begin with a sudden electric attraction, but they often end abruptly, and Hodiak may be in and out of love relationships - especially in his younger years. John Hodiak craves emotional excitement and needs to feel spontaneous and free, so he may avoid making firm personal commitments. Unusual or nontraditional forms of love and relationships appeal to Hodiak, and he is attracted to unique, creative or unstable people.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 4th house

Moon Opposition Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Neptune

Moon Opposition Neptune

Moon Opposition Venus/Asc.

Venus in Taurus

Venus in 8th house

Venus Square Uranus