John C. Hawkes
in Relationships
Warm, loving and generous in his relationships, John Hawkes inspires tremendous devotion and loyalty in his loved ones. This is good, since he would never settle for anything less! John wants to be adored and worshipped like the royalty he feels he is, and it is difficult for anyone to resist the warmth and attention Hawkes lavishes on those he cares about. John Hawkes has a great deal of pride and needs to be recognized and appreciated. The way to really hurt his feelings is to ignore him. He is genuine, sincere, and has a strong sense of personal integrity. John Hawkes hates emotional games and dishonesty.
John Hawkes may have traveled extensively in his early years, or something in his background may have enabled him to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.
Hawkes has a craving for things that are far away and foreign, or that he has never experienced before. John Hawkes wants to completely immerse himself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply acquire facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally as well John is restless and somewhat of a wanderer.
John Hawkes often feels that he must do something or be something other than what he is in order to receive approval and acceptance from others. He is very sensitive to criticism and easily feels left out or neglected, and though he may appear cool or distant, Hawkes actually cares very much about being included. Because he is so sensitive, it may seem easier for John Hawkes to withdraw into a shell rather than risk the emotional bumps and bruises he may endure once he lets others really know him in an intimate, personal way. His reserve and caution make establishing close emotional relationships with others difficult, and John Hawkes becomes very attached to the few people he considers "real friends". Hawkes can gain inner security and strength through periods of solitude if he views them as times to nourish himself and develop his own interests, rather than as times of loneliness.
John Hawkes tends to be a loner and is inclined to suppress his feelings. Other people think they know John, but they never really do. At times he may withdraw too much and may alienate others. John Hawkes is also somewhat biased and may be torn by inner conflicts.
He is subject to strange emotional experiences which could relate to the supernatural. Very sensitive, John Hawkes immediately responds to every influence, resulting in frequent changes of mood. He may be interested in the occult, psychic studies and spiritualism.
John Hawkes possesses a certain inner greatness and because of his inner qualities, he has the ability to influence others. People look to Hawkes for guidance and advice, and his leadership is easily accepted by those with whom John Hawkes comes in contact.
He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. John Hawkes is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. John Hawkes also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.
Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make John Hawkes very happy. John wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. John Hawkes may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Hawkes is a natural host or diplomat.
John Hawkes is not a traditionalist where love and relationships are concerned, and he often feels that formal commitments and conventional relationships are too binding and restricting. Thus, John is not very comfortable with forming lasting attachments or letting other people depend on him. He may be attracted to wild, unreliable, highly creative and/or unstable people who do not offer him any security. Even if John Hawkes professes to want something steady and solid, he is very reluctant to give up his freedom and autonomy for its sake. At best, he is suited to serial monogamy or relationships that leave Hawkes a lot of breathing space.
He makes a good impression on others and tends to attract people who want to take care of him, which could cause John Hawkes to become too dependent on others. Partnership is important to Hawkes, and he is inclined to change his ways just for the sake of love relationships.
John Hawkes treats others in an agreeable, affectionate and tactful way and freely shows his affection for them. His circle of friends is likely to be large and Hawkes strives for the development of a strong community spirit.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Leo
Moon in 9th house
Moon Square Saturn
Moon Conjunct Sun/Pluto
Moon Conjunct Neptune/Pluto
Moon Conjunct Pluto/MC
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 10th house
Venus Opposition Uranus
Venus Conjunct Moon/Asc.
Venus Conjunct N. Node/Asc.
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