John Doe
in Relationships
Open and generous, John Doe enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. John Duchac rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, John Doe always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. John Doe often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.
Friendship means a great deal to John Duchac, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For John Doe to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage John Doe's aspirations and ideals. John Doe also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.
John Doe has a sympathetic nature and instinctively reaches out to people in need of help. John Duchac also has a deeply ingrained tendency to want to improve or "fix" other people's lives, which can be annoying to the person who has no desire to be changed or "helped" in this way. For John Doe, affection and caring must be expressed in tangible acts or service of some kind.
John Doe feels that he must always be doing something, and he becomes impatient and irritable if he has to slow down or wait for anything. A stormy home life may be the result of his own tendency to fight for what he wants, rather than compromise. John Doe may not realize how competitive he is.
John Doe has the ability to speak with his heart and soul and therefore to convince people. He is adaptable in both his thinking and speaking, but also changeable. In his work John Doe can be a fanatic, at times inconsiderate and expects too much of others.
John Doe's emotional life seems to be overly intense and his sexuality is very strong. John Doe is likely to make many demands of his partner and he has to guard against possessiveness, jealousy and a tendency to force someone to love him.
Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, John Doe gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, John Doe may become romantically involved with a person because he or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.
He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone John Doe feels he can have a deep spiritual relationship with. John Doe idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make John Doe very happy. John Doe wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. John Doe may "marry" his work - that is, being more involved in his career than in his private life. John Duchac is a natural host or diplomat.
He is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in his love relationships - often because John Doe puts his desires ahead of his partner's, and is impatient to have his love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to John Doe and he is not happy without a love partner. John Duchac can "burn himself out" by pouring so much of his energy into romance.
John Doe shares whatever he has freely and his friends know they can always count on John Doe's generosity and support - both emotional and material. His good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in his relationships. John Doe also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. John Doe likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. He cannot tolerate being overly restricted by his love partner, and encourages his partner's freedom as well.
John Doe's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times John Doe is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive John Duchac is to being left out or unappreciated.
Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to John Doe in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. John Duchac is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest John Doe at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.
He is rich in feelings and has the ability to express them well. John Doe has a knack for making others feel good and is likely to enjoy a harmonious sex-life. John Doe also has a strong need to create and may have a flair for designing fashionable clothes.
His romantic relationships are inclined to be rather stressed. John Doe longs for new experiences on one hand, but feels restricted or thwarted by circumstances on the other. John Duchac tends to fight against limitations and may frequently be irritated by the conduct of others.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Sagittarius
Moon in 6th house
Moon Conjunct Mars
Moon Opposition Mercury/Pluto
Moon Opposition Venus/Pluto
Venus in Pisces
Venus in 10th house
Venus Square Mars
Venus Square Jupiter
Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Venus Trine Saturn
Venus Opposition Mars/Jupiter
Venus Opposition Saturn/Uranus
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