John Deacon
in Relationships
Tenderhearted and sympathetic to an unusual degree, John Deacon has an understanding of other people's feelings and needs which borders on telepathy. John Deacon is extremely compassionate and cannot bear to see any fellow creature - human or animal - suffer. Because of his kindness and nonjudgmental attitude, people suffering from pain or confusion are drawn to Deacon for help, which he readily gives. Sometimes Deacon's soft-heartedness is taken advantage of.
He is a gentle, poetic soul and has a great love and affinity for music. Because many of his feelings are vague and he cannot easily verbalize how he experiences life, music seems a natural language for Deacon. He is also extremely romantic and often "in love with love".
He is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes his feelings by acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. John Deacon cannot hide his instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and he does not make any pretenses about his personal sympathies or antipathies.
John Deacon has a childlike openness and playfulness that is very appealing to others but sometimes gets him into trouble, as John takes risks on an impulse or a whim.
He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. John Deacon cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Deacon's motto.
Although Deacon gets hot under the collar rather easily (as mentioned above), he also has a certain degree of emotional self-control and composure, which enable John Deacon to rein in some of his more aggressive tendencies. This side of his is described below.
Some rather acute fears of being excluded, rejected, left out in the cold or separated from loved ones can make John Deacon either extremely cautious about getting close to people or clingy toward whoever gives him any warmth or security. John Deacon tends to withhold and clamp down on many of his feelings and craves nurturing and security, perhaps feeling that they are unacceptable or will never be satisfied. Learning to be open and trust others to nurture him is important to him. His earliest years, especially Deacon's relationships with his mother, will determine whether John Deacon will overcome his fears or retreat behind a mask of self-sufficiency and indifference.
His emotional needs are very important to John Deacon and he tends to seek approval and recognition from the people in his immediate world. Deacon will derive more benefit in activities with others than by keeping to him.
John Deacon has a positive emotional outlook and cultivating spiritual relationships with others is important to him. He is likely to have a big circle of friends and acquaintances and he loves to give and receive social invitations.
He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. John Deacon is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. John Deacon also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.
Deacon is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. John Deacon thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.
He is very affectionate in his relationships and tends to form deep attachments with other people. John Deacon may also enjoy contacts with the arts and may join associations that are connected with artistic events or cultural exchanges.
He is likely to have very strange experiences in love relationships. John Deacon is inclined to fantasize a lot about love and seems to admire the unattainable. Strongly attracted to the spiritual dimensions of life, he may pursue the study of mystical and occult subjects.
John Deacon has a strong desire for harmony and beauty in his surroundings. Very interested in art, he is likely to devote his life to beauty and art. He may pursue a career in cultivating and embellishing the environment.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Pisces
Moon in 5th house
Moon Trine Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Saturn
Moon Opposition Saturn
Moon Opposition Sun/Asc.
Moon Conjunct Jupiter/N. Node
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 11th house
Venus Opposition Moon/N. Node
Venus Conjunct Neptune/Pluto
Venus Conjunct Asc./MC
|
