John Coltrane in Relationships
Emotional outbursts are frequent with John Coltrane due to his fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. Coltrane expresses himself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what his true feelings are. However, John Coltrane dislikes showing any personal weaknesses or needs for support, comfort, and nurturing. He is often impatient with himself and with others. John abhors emotional dependency and dislike "complainers".
John Coltrane inspires others to take positive action in their lives by his own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and he is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous, and independent. John is rather bossy, but he does not like to be with people that he can boss around too much. He enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built upon mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for Coltrane.
John Coltrane becomes very cross if he does not have enough vigorous physical activity. Coltrane will feels his best if he "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in some other competitive sport) frequently.
He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give John Coltrane a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or things with sentimental value from John's past are especially dear to him.
John Coltrane may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.
The beauty and harmony of his surroundings has a very powerful effect on Coltrane's emotions. He is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace-loving, John Coltrane will give or sacrifice much in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".
Coltrane is reserved and shy and his thinking is controlled and somewhat slow. When talking, John Coltrane sometimes may have the feeling that the words get stuck in his throat. Because of his disciplined mind, John is able to concentrate easily.
John Coltrane has a warm-hearted and cordial disposition and his feelings toward others are very deep and filled with love. John goes out of his way to be agreeable and should have little trouble getting ahead in life.
John Coltrane has a positive emotional outlook and cultivating spiritual relationships with others is important to him. He is likely to have a big circle of friends and acquaintances and he loves to give and receive social invitations.
He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones, and often becomes a kind of servant to his love partner. John Coltrane is more comfortable showing love for someone by doing something for them, making something for them, or simply being there for them - rather than telling them so in a romantic, soul-stirring sort of way. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. John Coltrane also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness to receive love and appreciation.
Coltrane is a very personable, affectionate, loving friend and will always have many people in his relationships that love and cherish him. John Coltrane prefers being with others rather than on his own, and he feels very incomplete without a special person in his life to share his love with. Being half of a close, loving relationship is very important to John.
John is a peacemaker, the one who adapts, harmonizes, and makes concessions for the sake of the relationship. His charm and agreeableness makes John Coltrane very popular.
John Coltrane is warmly romantic and he openly expresses his appreciation and love of the opposite sex, though rarely in a crude or insensitive manner. He enjoys playing matchmaker and bringing people together romantically. Fulfillment and harmony in love relationships are likely for Coltrane because he knows what he wants and needs in a romantic sense and expresses those desires honestly.
His tastes and natural inclinations run toward the extravagant and luxurious. Whether or not John Coltrane possesses the resources to satisfy these desires or the ambition to provide these things for himself, he wants a life with plenty, ease, and comfort. John may cause trouble in his love relationships by focusing too much attention on money or "lifestyle" rather than on the person he is with. John Coltrane may also attract gold diggers or parasites who will take advantage of his hospitality as long as he allows them to. Indiscretion in matters of both heart and pocketbook can be problems as well.
His romantic relationships tend to be deep, intense, passionate, and highly emotional. It is "all or nothing" with him. Oftentimes John Coltrane is irresistibly attracted to someone and feels that he has very little choice or control over his powerful feelings.
He may well be highly magnetic and sexually attractive himself. John Coltrane should beware of using this power to manipulate people, for he could gain the reputation of being a "user".
John Coltrane has a vivid imagination and is likely to imagine the most wonderful things, but he may over-idealize and tend to expect too much of love relationships. John tries to escape unpleasant experiences through fantasy and deception.
It is easy for John Coltrane to show others the love he feels for them and he talks freely to them about his feelings. John likes nice surroundings and wants to beautify his environment as quickly as possible, once he has come up with an idea to do so.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aries
Moon in 2nd house
Moon Trine Neptune
Moon Opposition Mercury/Saturn
Moon Opposition Venus/MC
Moon Conjunct Jupiter/N. Node
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 7th house
Venus Trine Mars
Venus Quincunx Jupiter
Venus Sextile Pluto
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Neptune
Venus Opposition Uranus/Asc.
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