John Belushi
in Relationships
Open and generous, John Belushi enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Belushi rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, John always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. John Belushi often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.
Friendship means a great deal to Belushi, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For John Belushi to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage John's aspirations and ideals. John Belushi also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.
His own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to John, and it is often difficult for him to share with others what he is feeling.
John Belushi frequently withdraws from contact with the world, and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of his.
Belushi identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and he wants to help them or care for them in some way.
His childhood and early home life was in many ways unsettling, and the nurturing Belushi received was erratic and unreliable at best. John Belushi has had to move a lot, or Belushi's family may have been blatantly different from other people so that John was often deemed an outsider or a "weirdo". As an adult, John Belushi may long for "normalcy" while at the same time he balks at any routine, structure, formality or restrictions.
John Belushi often becomes nervous or shaky when emotionally stressed. Developing a regular rhythm and a steady, consistent (if not traditional) way of life would be beneficial to Belushi, both emotionally and physically.
His thinking is dictated by his feelings and Belushi may rely on his intuitions and impressions rather than practical means. His advice may often be sought and heeded, because John Belushi seems to know and understand what motivates others.
His emotional excitability is very strong and Belushi tends to be high-strung and impatient. John Belushi knows what he wants to accomplish, he forges ahead and brooks no interference. Domineering and forceful, it is not easy for John Belushi to back down gracefully when he is confronted.
His emotional flow seems to be blocked in some way and Belushi may feel inhibited when he is with others. John Belushi is likely to have a certain fear of crowds and may have a tendency to be agoraphobic.
He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. John Belushi cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Belushi's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest John at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. John Belushi is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.
John Belushi may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security John desires.
Belushi is very much aware of his personal appearance, attractiveness, and charm, and he can be rather narcissistic. On the other hand, John Belushi is concerned with getting along with others and he has a pleasing, agreeable manner that people find quite appealing. John uses tact or charm to get what he wants rather than intense effort or force. His desire for love and affection colors everything John Belushi does.
He is kindhearted and generous with both his money and his affections, and he is not happy if he has to budget or restrict himself in any way. Pettiness or stinginess is foreign to John's nature and John Belushi feels most comfortable in an elegant, beautiful atmosphere. Asceticism is not for Belushi. Gracious and charitable, he enjoys sponsoring social events or cultural activities. John Belushi has an optimistic, friendly attitude towards others and tends to bring out the finer side of people. He is likely to fall in love with someone who is successful, noble and idealistic.
John Belushi has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though John frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Belushi can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of Belushi's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
He is prone to get involved in highly intense, even obsessive relationships - "fatal attractions", so to speak. At its darkest, this urge for intensity in the personal arena may compel John Belushi to choose friends or mates who are rather dangerous or dishonorable characters with a penchant for manipulating and inflicting pain on their "loved ones". On the other hand, Belushi may be tempted to use his own sexuality or charm to play the same sort of game, to use love or friendship as a bargaining chip or to gain power over others. Even if his intentions are basically good, John Belushi will find that his closest relationships are rather tumultuous affairs in which some rather unlovely aspects of his (such as jealousy and the desire to dominate or to be a victim) keep showing their faces. These are qualities that need to be understood and ultimately outgrown.
He is strongly attracted to the opposite sex and his relationships tend to be harmonious. John Belushi will probably marry for love and his mate will be a friend to him as well as a lover. The atmosphere in his family life is affectionate and protective.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Sagittarius
Moon in 12th house
Moon Opposition Uranus
Moon Conjunct Mercury/MC
Moon Conjunct Mars/MC
Moon Opposition Pluto/N. Node
Venus in Capricorn
Venus in 1st house
Venus Conjunct Jupiter
Venus Square Neptune
Venus Quincunx Pluto
Venus Conjunct Sun/Moon
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