John Bayley
in Relationships
John Bayley has frequent emotional outbursts due to his fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. Bayley expresses himself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what his true feelings are. However, John Bayley dislikes showing any personal weakness or his need for support, comfort and nurturing. He is often impatient with himself and others. John abhors emotional dependency and dislikes "complainers".
John Bayley inspires others to take positive action in their lives through his own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and he is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous and independent. John is rather bossy but does not like to be with people that he can boss around too much. He enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built on mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for Bayley.
John Bayley becomes very cross if he lacks vigorous physical activity. Bayley feels his best if he frequently "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in another form of competitive sport).
Bayley works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to John, and he may invest more of his emotional energy into his career or public life than in his private life. Providing and caring for others, in a professional capacity is very likely.
Bayley can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously he may feel that too much closeness in his relationships will interfere with doing what he needs to do and being his own person, so John Bayley puts up subtle walls and distance himself when someone begins to want more of him than he can comfortably give. However, Bayley may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. John Bayley might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming his fears of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on his autonomous needs, is the challenge here.
John has intense desires and feelings and his personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. John Bayley has powerful magnetic relationships with those he cares about, and he could become emotionally obsessed by another person. His feelings can become so urgent and compelling that he behaves irrationally. John Bayley undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when he must break all ties with the past and begin anew.
He is warm and affectionate in his relationships with others and has the ability to see the others' point of view, which is greatly appreciated by those around him. John Bayley is emotionally well balanced and also has a well developed intellectual grasp.
John Bayley seems to be happy in his environment and is likely to be the center of attraction in his surroundings. John Bayley has a kind, warm-hearted and cordial nature and he treats others with sympathetic and compassionate understanding.
Tremendously softhearted and sympathetic, John Bayley gives very selflessly and devotedly to those he loves and often allows others to become overly dependent upon him. More compassionate than passionate, John Bayley may become romantically involved with a person because he or she expresses a need for love, rather than out of mutual pleasure or attraction.
He is drawn to sensitive, imaginative, gentle souls - poets, musicians, dreamers - or to someone John feels he can have a deep spiritual relationship with. John Bayley idealizes love and has a very beautiful, romantic vision of what love relationships can be.
Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make John Bayley very happy. John wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. John Bayley may "marry" his work - that is, being more involved in his career than in his private life. Bayley is a natural host or diplomat.
He is excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. John Bayley falls in love very quickly and has little self-restraint or concern for propriety when his feelings have been stirred. However, it may be difficult for John to sustain relationships after the first rush of excitement wanes, especially if Bayley's partner is basically a conservative person who does not like to change or experiment. Nontraditional relationships appeal to John Bayley, and personal freedom is or paramount importance to him.
He is rich in feelings and has the ability to express them well. John Bayley has a knack for making others feel good and is likely to enjoy a harmonious sex-life. John also has a strong need to create and may have a flair for designing fashionable clothes.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aries
Moon in 10th house
Moon Quincunx Saturn
Moon Square Pluto
Moon Conjunct Sun/Mercury
Moon Conjunct Jupiter/Asc.
Venus in Pisces
Venus in 10th house
Venus Conjunct Uranus
Venus Conjunct Mars/Jupiter
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