Jodie Foster
in Relationships

She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Jodie Foster rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Foster's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.

It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Foster may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Jodie difficult to live with. Jodie Foster needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.

Jodie Foster may have done extensive traveling in her early years, or in some way had a background which enables her to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.

Foster has a craving for things which are far away and foreign or for things she has never experienced before. Jodie Foster wants to completely immerse herself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply have facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally, too, Jodie is restless and something of a wanderer.

Gregarious and fun loving, she is always out to have a good time. Jodie Foster tends to "play now, pay later" and is prone to overspend, overeat, drink too much, and in general overdo, and even more so when in the company of others. It is hard for Jodie Foster to say no, especially when Foster's emotions or appetites are involved. Generous to a fault, she is likely to be very free both with money and with affection.

There is another side to Jodie Foster as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers her good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

Foster can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously she may feel that too much closeness in her relationships will interfere with doing what she needs to do and being her own person, so Jodie Foster puts up subtle walls and distance herself when someone begins to want more of her than she can comfortably give. However, Foster may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Jodie Foster might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming her fears of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on her autonomous needs, is the challenge here.

In addition to Jodie's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, she has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Jodie Foster craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Foster rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. Her freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

Jodie has an unusual sense of humor and enjoys acting a little bit crazy or outlandish sometimes. Foster craves excitement and emotional freedom and she likes to break the rules and take risks. Anything new or untried appeals to Foster and she has little patience for restrictive customs. Jodie Foster is attracted to unusual, creative, or offbeat people and nontraditional lifestyles and relationships.

Foster relates to others on an emotional level, because she feels her emotions so strongly yourself. She is sensitive to others' needs and has the ability to create a cozy atmosphere when she is together with another person.

In love relationships, Jodie Foster desires a deep, intense and passionate union with her beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Jodie "marries" the person she loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Foster can be very demanding of her love partner. Jodie Foster tends to be somewhat suspicious of her partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If she is ever betrayed, Jodie Foster is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as she once loved. She is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.

Foster is a very sociable, congenial person and she wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Jodie Foster thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. She is quite happy when she is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.

She is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in her love relationships - often because Jodie Foster puts her desires ahead of her partner's, and is impatient to have her love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Jodie Foster and she is not happy without a love partner. Foster can "burn herself out" by pouring so much of her energy into romance.

She is very romantic, idealistic and imaginative about love relationships. Jodie Foster yearns for her "true love" or "soul mate" and may become disappointed in those who never quite live up to her dream image of the perfect lover. Foster frequently fantasizes about love and often falls in love with someone she can only love from afar. She may avoid making a definite personal commitment. Gentle and sensitive, Jodie Foster does not like to be approached in a very direct or aggressive manner. She is attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 9th house

Moon Opposition Jupiter

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Quincunx Saturn

Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus

Moon Conjunct Uranus

Moon Conjunct N. Node/MC

Venus in Scorpio

Venus in 11th house

Venus Square Mars

Venus Conjunct Neptune