Joan Jett in Relationships
Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Joan Jett denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Joan Jett needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Joan Jett also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.
She is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for her belongings give Joan Jett a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to her. Antiques or articles with sentimental value from Joan's past are especially dear to her.
Joan Jett may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of her immediate circle.
She is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Joan Jett cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and she can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Jett's motto.
Although she is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Joan Jett also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, she is usually a good sport.
Joan Jett has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and she reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. Her emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among her circle of friends, and people often seek Joan out for help, sympathy or advice. Joan Jett is always willing to overlook others' faults, and she sometimes overdoes her charitableness.
Although Joan Jett was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, she also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Joan's fiery reactions somewhat, or she may seesaw between the two. Her softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
She is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Joan does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in her personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into her imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. She is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if her sympathy has been aroused. Joan Jett is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.
Powerful and complex emotions stir Joan Jett, and her emotional life and closest personal relationships are liable to be tumultuous until Joan does some deep soul searching. Buried feelings and memories that she does not want to deal with may surface at unexpected times. Holding in fears, secrets or "taboo" thoughts and feelings can only intensify them, and Joan Jett needs to share them with someone who is sympathetic, trustworthy and fairly objective. Ridding herself of emotional compulsions and deeply embedded patterns that do not serve her can be tremendously liberating if Joan Jett is willing to do the necessary inner house cleaning.
She is not afraid to take chances and follow her ambitions with great determination and courage. A bit impatient and quick tempered, Jett can be uncompromising at times. Joan Jett also is quite hot-blooded and passionate with a strong desire for marriage.
She is quietly devoted and faithful to her loved ones and often becomes subservient to her love partner. Joan Jett is more comfortable showing her love by doing or making something for her loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. She is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Joan Jett also underestimates her attractiveness and lovability and doubts her own worthiness of love and appreciation.
Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Joan Jett very happy. Joan wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and she wants to be recognized for her beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Joan Jett may be "married to" her work - namely she may be more involved in her career than in her private life. Jett is a natural host or diplomat.
She is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy herself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Joan Jett rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in her early life, Joan is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing her feelings. Though Jett craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for her. She may become romantically involved with people who do not value her or treat her well. Joan Jett needs to learn to love and value herself before she finds happiness in love.
She is creative and ingenious and will put deep, feeling energy into her creations. But her emotional state is easily upset and Jett can be a fanatic in love relationships. Joan Jett tends to be possessive and she has such intense needs that disappointments may be unavoidable.
Joan Jett tends to think a lot about art and beauty as well as matters of love relationships and is content with the way things are in her life. She is comfortable in talking to someone about her feelings toward them. Joan Jett also could find artistic endeavors very rewarding.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 2nd house
Moon Trine Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter
Moon Square Jupiter
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Square Neptune
Moon Quincunx Pluto
Moon Opposition Sun/Mars
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 10th house
Venus Square Saturn
Venus Conjunct Sun/Pluto
Venus Conjunct Mercury/MC
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