Joan Blondell in Relationships
Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Joan Blondell denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Joan Blondell needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Joan Blondell also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.
Blondell works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to Joan, and she may invest more of her emotional energy into her career or public life than in her private life. Providing and caring for others, in a professional capacity is very likely.
She is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Joan Blondell tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if her desires are frustrated. Joan Blondell becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if she lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for her aggressive, feisty spirit.
She is hot-tempered and tends to get annoyed and angered easily. Very competitive, Joan Blondell is always willing to take on any challenge. Tact and diplomacy are not of her strong points and Joan must learn to master her irritability and quarrelsomeness.
Joan Blondell possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand her love partner. Because she values harmony so highly, Joan Blondell will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in her relationships. Joan does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".
In love relationships, Joan Blondell wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. She is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Joan Blondell appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.
Blondell is a very personable, affectionate, loving friend and will always have many people in her relationships that love and cherish her. Joan Blondell prefers being with others rather than on her own, and she feels very incomplete without a special person in her life to share her love with. Being half of a close, loving relationship is very important to Joan.
Joan is a peacemaker, the one who adapts, harmonizes, and makes concessions for the sake of the relationship. Her charm and agreeableness makes Joan Blondell very popular.
Somewhat over-enthusiastic in matters of love relationships, Joan Blondell could fall in love with the wrong person. She may be too selfless and have the illusion that her only need in relationships is to make the other person happy, leading to disappointments and regrets.
She may be caught in a conflict between caution and optimism frequently, resulting in restlessness and discontentment. In love relationships, Joan Blondell could feel controlled, rejected or not accepted at times, and at other times experience great ease, happiness and content.
Joan has the ability to share the abundance of love she feels with many people. But there also is a very strong self-indulgent streak in Blondell, and she has to be careful not to eat or drink too much and feel bad as a result of it.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 10th house
Moon Square Mars
Moon Opposition Mars/Asc.
Venus in Libra
Venus in 7th house
Venus Conjunct Moon/Neptune
Venus Opposition Jupiter/Saturn
Venus Opposition Jupiter/Pluto
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