Joan Bennett in Relationships
Her desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that she avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Joan Bennett is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. She is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from her, and befriend many different types of people. She is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Joan Bennett is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with herself than others would ever guess based on her flawless disposition.
She is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes her feelings, acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Joan Bennett cannot hide her instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and she does not make any pretenses about her personal sympathies or antipathies.
Joan Bennett has a childlike openness and playfulness which is very appealing to others, but which sometimes gets her into trouble, as Joan takes risks on impulse or whim.
Joan Bennett feels that little, daily acts of caring and thoughtfulness are essential to the happiness and success of relationships and she knows how to make others feel accepted, loved and cherished. She enjoys good relationships with women.
She is tolerant and forgiving and always ready to overlook mistakes and give others a second chance. Joan Bennett expects, and draws out, the best from people and she enjoys making others comfortable and happy. Because of her emotional generosity, her life is rich with friends, and often financial blessings as well.
There is another side to Joan Bennett as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers her good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.
Some rather acute fears of being excluded, rejected, left out in the cold or separated from loved ones can make Joan Bennett either extremely cautious about getting close to people or clingy toward whoever gives her any warmth or security. Joan Bennett tends to withhold and clamp down on many of her feelings and craves nurturing and security, perhaps feeling that they are unacceptable or will never be satisfied. Learning to be open and trust others to nurture her is important to her. Her earliest years, especially Bennett's relationships with her mother, will determine whether Joan Bennett will overcome her fears or retreat behind a mask of self-sufficiency and indifference.
She is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Joan does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in her personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into her imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. She is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if her sympathy has been aroused. Joan Bennett is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.
Joan has the ability to speak with her heart and soul and therefore to convince people. She is adaptable in both her thinking and speaking, but also changeable. In her work Joan Bennett can be a fanatic, at times inconsiderate and expects too much of others.
She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Joan Bennett values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Joan desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Bennett, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Joan Bennett appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.
Joan is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling, and to people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show Bennett places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.
Also, Joan Bennett feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only with her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.
Joan Bennett appreciates beautiful surroundings and congenial company, and though she enjoys helping people, Joan Bennett will rarely put herself out too much in the process. She is good-humored and generous at heart but inclined to be lazy.
It is absolutely essential for Joan Bennett not to deceive herself when it comes to love relationships, romance, or the true nature of other people. Joan tends to be in love with love, and can be incredibly naive and easily seduced. Confusion, disappointments, and regrettable mistakes in both emotional and financial matters may result. On the other hand, it is also possible that Joan Bennett will use her attractiveness or charm to deceive others. Clarity, directness, honesty, and realism regarding romantic relationships and people in general, need to be developed.
She is likely to have many romantic relationships or unusual love experiences. Joan Bennett tends to fall in love quickly and enjoy a conquest, but then tire of what has been conquered. If she does not keep this in control, she could end up in a hasty marriage and a quick divorce.
She is quickly aroused and likes to play with fire. A bit of a Don Juan, Joan Bennett seeks adventures in love relationships, but tends to be somewhat promiscuous. Bennett tends to lead a modern way of life; her style of clothes as well as general life style.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Libra
Moon in 5th house
Moon Trine Venus
Moon Conjunct Jupiter
Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn
Moon Opposition Saturn
Moon Square Neptune
Moon Opposition Mercury/Pluto
Venus in Aquarius
Venus in 9th house
Venus Trine Jupiter
Venus Quincunx Neptune
Venus Conjunct Sun/Uranus
Venus Conjunct Uranus/MC
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