Jimmy Connors
in Relationships

He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Jimmy should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Connors often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Connors' sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Jimmy Connors insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Jimmy does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.

Jimmy Connors feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.

Jimmy has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage and family traditions. In fact, Jimmy Connors may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Connors' ties to his mother are very strong and Jimmy also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members.

Jimmy Connors has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and he reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. His emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among his circle of friends, and people often seek Jimmy out for help, sympathy or advice. Jimmy Connors is always willing to overlook others' faults, and he sometimes overdoes his charitableness.

Jimmy Connors tends to have strange quirks, idiosyncrasies or domestic habits, and he may feel that he does not fit in with "normal" people. These could be endearing eccentricities, or truly outlandish tastes and behavior. Establishing a steady routine and rhythm in his life and relationships would be very beneficial but may not be easily achieved. Ideally Jimmy Connors could create a unique lifestyle that affords him a lot of personal space, freedom and flexibility to follow his own somewhat erratic rhythms - yet at the same time provides him with a modicum of order and consistency. There is also a current of emotional discontent or restlessness within Jimmy that may be reflected in unstable personal relationships of the on again/off again variety. Jimmy Connors craves change and excitement whether he realizes it consciously or not.

The beauty and harmony of his surroundings have a very powerful effect on Connors' emotions. He is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Jimmy Connors is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".

His intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Jimmy Connors that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. He may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and Connors' neediness often drives others away. When Jimmy Connors does let himself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses he suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt he endured. He may also reenact these situations in his present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. Connors will do a lot of cleansing if he can listen to what his feelings are telling him. If not, Jimmy Connors will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.

He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. Jimmy Connors is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Jimmy Connors also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.

Connors is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Jimmy Connors thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group or team of some sort.

Connors' constitution tends to be on the weak side and he may tire easily. In love relationships he could be somewhat reserved and have a tendency toward platonic relationships. On the other hand, Jimmy Connors could also have questionable romances that leave Jimmy disappointed.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aquarius

Moon in 4th house

Moon Square Jupiter

Moon Quincunx Uranus

Moon Trine Neptune

Moon Opposition Pluto

Venus in Virgo

Venus in 11th house

Venus Conjunct Sun/Neptune