Jimmy Boyd
in Relationships

He is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others his feelings. Though he may love and care for someone a great deal, Jimmy Boyd rarely expresses his feelings openly and freely. Very often Boyd's love for someone is expressed by his wish to help him, do something tangible to benefit him or serve him in some way.

It is also difficult for him to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for he often feels that he does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Boyd may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than he feels.

A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Jimmy difficult to live with. Jimmy Boyd needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with himself.

He is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes his feelings by acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Jimmy Boyd cannot hide his instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and he does not make any pretenses about his personal sympathies or antipathies.

Jimmy Boyd has a childlike openness and playfulness that is very appealing to others but sometimes gets him into trouble, as Jimmy takes risks on an impulse or a whim.

Boyd can be hard to get close to. Subconsciously he may feel that too much closeness in his relationships will interfere with doing what he needs to do and being his own person, so Jimmy Boyd puts up subtle walls and distances himself when someone begins to want more of him than he can comfortably give. However, Boyd may cut off sources of emotional nourishment and support that way, and end up feeling alone and lonely. Jimmy Boyd might even develop digestive problems. Overcoming his fear of intimacy, while at the same time affirming and acting on his autonomous needs, is the challenge he faces.

In addition to Jimmy's rather introverted, serious or self-contained side, he has a wild streak and urge for emotional freedom that breaks through erratically. Jimmy Boyd craves both stability and excitement, and the conflict between these two impulses can make Boyd rather tense and irritable. However, they can also balance each other out. His freer and unpredictable side will now be described.

He is uninhibited and spontaneous and will often do something unexpected or humorous in order to loosen people up and get them out of their rut. Jimmy Boyd craves emotional stimulation, excitement, surprises and anything new. Boyd also loves to feel free and unfettered.

In love relationships, Jimmy Boyd seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. He enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Jimmy, and he is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than his own. Jimmy Boyd supports his partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. He also very much wants a partner who will encourage his own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Jimmy that he have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with his love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Jimmy Boyd is not especially sentimental and his love partner may feel that he is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

Jimmy Boyd craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are calm but lack vitality and passion. Jimmy loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Boyd.

Jimmy Boyd shares whatever he has freely and his friends know they can always count on Jimmy's generosity and support - both emotional and material. His good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in his relationships. Jimmy Boyd also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Jimmy likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. He cannot tolerate being overly restricted by his love partner, and encourages his partner's freedom as well.

Jimmy Boyd loves deeply, passionately and wholeheartedly, and others may find his intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. He is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional impact on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Boyd may use his attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Virgo

Moon in 5th house

Moon Quincunx Saturn

Moon aspects Saturn and Uranus

Moon Trine Uranus

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 8th house

Venus Square Jupiter

Venus Trine Pluto