Jim Sturgess in Relationships
His desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that he avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Jim Sturgess is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. He is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from him, and befriend many different types of people. He is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Jim Sturgess is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with himself than others would ever guess based on his flawless disposition.
Jim Sturgess often makes decisions solely for emotional or personal reasons, because something "feels right" or because he has always done it a certain way and is uncomfortable acting otherwise. Even when Sturgess thinks he is being rational, his prejudices, intuitions and feelings influence his thoughts a great deal. Jim is comfortable talking about feelings and personal subjects, and sharing confidences, which enables others to express their own inner feelings with him as well. Jim Sturgess has good psychological insight into others.
Jim Sturgess tends to surround himself with people who are gentle, sensitive, peace loving, and artistically or spiritually inclined, and there is a strong element of mutual compassion and sympathy in his personal relationships. It is easy for Jim to tune in psychically to other people's feelings and emotional worlds. Jim Sturgess may share this type of telepathic link with his mother, sisters, or female friends in particular.
His emotions are very intense, but often hidden. Like a volcano, one minute Jim Sturgess seems quite peaceful and the next, he is exploding with great force and unexpected fury. The intensity of his reactions often surprises even him. Jim has tremendous zeal and tends to be an emotional fanatic about things he cares about. His feelings and desires can be so compelling that he does things against his better judgment and reason. Sturgess can also be very manipulative, in a subtle way. His personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well.
In a love relationship, Jim Sturgess is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Jim likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps him guessing and Jim Sturgess becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises him. It is very important to Jim Sturgess' happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Jim Sturgess needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Sturgess finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.
Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Jim Sturgess very happy. Jim wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Jim Sturgess may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Sturgess is a natural host or diplomat.
Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Jim Sturgess in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. Sturgess is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Jim Sturgess at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.
Jim Sturgess has a good understanding of his own needs but also is genuinely interested in other people. Others are attracted to Sturgess because of his gentle, kind and friendly manner and he may feel especially drawn to young people.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Libra
Moon in 3rd house
Moon Sextile Neptune
Moon Conjunct Pluto
Venus in Gemini
Venus in 10th house
Venus Trine Saturn
Venus Conjunct Sun/Mercury
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