Jesse Jane
in Relationships
She is very sensitive, cautious, and shy about showing others her feelings. Though she may love and care for someone a great deal, Jesse Jane rarely expresses her feelings openly and freely. Very often Jane's love for someone is expressed by her wish to help her, do something tangible to benefit her or serve her in some way.
It is also difficult for her to receive warmth, affection or appreciation, for she often feels that she does not really deserve it or that "they do not really mean it". Jane may therefore come across as rather cool and aloof - much more so than she feels.
A deeply ingrained critical attitude often makes Jesse difficult to live with. Jesse Jane needs to learn to be gentler and less of a perfectionist with others and with herself.
Her own feelings and emotions are something of an enigma to Jesse, and it is often difficult for her to share what she is feeling with others.
Jesse Jane frequently withdraws from the world and needs a healing, peaceful environment in order to blossom and come out of her own world.
Jane identifies with the oppressed, disenfranchised or underdog in any situation and she wants to help them or care for them in some way.
Jesse has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate her personal life and relationships. She may feel that she cannot depend on her love partner to take care of her or perhaps Jane cannot decide what she really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If her needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.
She is tolerant and forgiving and always ready to overlook mistakes and give others a second chance. Jesse Jane expects, and draws out, the best from people and she enjoys making others comfortable and happy. Because of her emotional generosity, her life is rich with friends, and often financial blessings as well.
She is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. Jesse does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in her personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into her imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. She is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if her sympathy has been aroused. Jesse Jane is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.
She is subject to changing moods and tends to alternate between associating with others and being completely alone, seeking to regenerate herself in solitude. Jesse Jane seems to be too critical of herself and tends to generate distance from others.
In a love relationship, Jesse Jane is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Jesse likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps her guessing and Jesse Jane becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises her. It is very important to Jesse Jane's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Jesse Jane needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Jane finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.
Jesse is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand her horizons, teach her something, or show her places and worlds she has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with her love partner is important to her.
Moreover, Jesse Jane feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for her own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of hers.
She is serious and finds it difficult to enjoy herself in a lighthearted, open and playful way with others. Jesse Jane rarely does something purely for pleasure, and can be very close-fisted and parsimonious. Perhaps due to painful separations in her early life, Jesse is very cautious about becoming involved in close relationships and sharing her feelings. Though Jane craves love and affection, intimacy is difficult for her. She may become romantically involved with people who do not value her or treat her well. Jesse Jane needs to learn to love and value herself before she finds happiness in love.
Jesse Jane tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem. Gullible, romantic and rather easily seduced, Jesse frequently falls in love with an image in her own mind, which she then projects onto the object of her affections, only to discover later that this person never really had the lovely qualities she endowed her with. Jesse Jane also confuses love relationships with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", thereby setting herself up to be taken advantage of. She is capable of great devotion to a spiritual cause, for she is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.
Jesse Jane loves deeply, passionately and wholeheartedly, and others may find her intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. She is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional impact on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Jane may use her attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Virgo
Moon in 12th house
Moon Square Venus
Moon Conjunct Jupiter
Moon Square Neptune
Moon Conjunct Jupiter/Saturn
Venus in Gemini
Venus in 9th house
Venus Square Saturn
Venus Opposition Neptune
Venus Trine Pluto
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