Jarvis Cocker
in Relationships

His desire for harmonious relationships and surroundings is so strong that he avoids personal confrontation or any expression of intense, unpleasant emotions. Jarvis Cocker is an idealist who would like to paint the world in pastel colors, and live in peace and harmony with others at all times. He is able to see points of similarity and unity with people who are vastly different from him, and befriend many different types of people. He is a considerate and thoughtful friend, and has a real flair for making others feel accepted and appreciated. Inwardly, Jarvis Cocker is often torn with indecision and is much more at odds with himself than others would ever guess based on his flawless disposition.

Cocker gets a lot of emotional fulfillment through his involvement in groups, clubs, organizations, community activities, or a network of close friends who support and care for him. Jarvis Cocker makes friends his family, and he feels a close kinship to people who share some ideals or beliefs that he holds dear. Jarvis Cocker needs close relationships with people outside of his immediate family.

Gregarious and fun loving, he is always out to have a good time. Jarvis Cocker tends to "play now, pay later" and is prone to overspend, overeat, drink too much, and in general overdo, and even more so when in the company of others. It is hard for Jarvis Cocker to say no, especially when Cocker's emotions or appetites are involved. Generous to a fault, he is likely to be very free both with money and with affection.

There is another side to Jarvis Cocker as well, a rather introverted, self-contained, even pessimistic side which tempers his good cheer and generosity, as discussed below.

Jarvis Cocker has an inner poise and balance that enables him to act in a cool, efficient manner during emotional trauma and stress. He maintains his perspective and objectivity about highly charged emotional issues - sometimes to the chagrin of others who might wish that Cocker would react more intensely. Jarvis is quietly supportive and faithful to his friends and loved ones.

He is not afraid to take chances and follow his ambitions with great determination and courage. A bit impatient and quick tempered, Cocker can be uncompromising at times. Jarvis Cocker also is quite hot-blooded and passionate with a strong desire for marriage.

Jarvis Cocker responds to his environment in a highly emotional way and encounters with other people can get him excited easily. His mood tends to change quickly, though, depending on the response Jarvis receives from others.

He is subject to strange emotional experiences which could relate to the supernatural. Very sensitive, Jarvis Cocker immediately responds to every influence, resulting in frequent changes of mood. He may be interested in the occult, psychic studies and spiritualism.

Jarvis Cocker is in harmony with himself and the world around him and is guided by his instincts. The parental type, he would like to solve everyone's problems. Very warm, sympathetic and cordial, Jarvis radiates harmony wherever he goes.

Jarvis Cocker possesses the gifts of tact, courtesy and consideration, and has a strong desire to please and understand his love partner. Because he values harmony so highly, Jarvis Cocker will compromise a great deal to avoid any discord or conflict in his relationships. Jarvis does not like to dwell on controversial or emotional subjects and often tries to "smooth things over" or "sweep them under the rug".

In love relationships, Jarvis Cocker wants an intellectual peer, an equal and a friend. He is attracted to people who have a certain finesse, delicacy and subtlety. Jarvis Cocker appreciates good manners and refinement and is not happy with coarseness or bluntness in a person.

Promoting beauty, the arts or entertainment can make Jarvis Cocker very happy. Jarvis wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts or loving generosity. Jarvis Cocker may be "married to" his work - namely he may be more involved in his career than in his private life. Cocker is a natural host or diplomat.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Libra

Moon in 11th house

Moon Opposition Jupiter

Moon aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Moon Trine Saturn

Moon Conjunct Sun/Mars

Moon Conjunct Uranus/Asc.

Moon Conjunct Neptune/Pluto

Moon Conjunct Asc./MC

Venus in Libra

Venus in 10th house