Jamie Oliver
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Jamie Oliver denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Jamie Oliver needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Jamie Oliver also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.

He is emotionally expressive and often dramatizes his feelings, acting them out or blowing them out of proportion. Jamie Oliver cannot hide his instinctive emotional reactions to people or situations, and he does not make any pretenses about his personal sympathies or antipathies.

Jamie Oliver has a childlike openness and playfulness which is very appealing to others, but which sometimes gets him into trouble, as Jamie takes risks on impulse or whim.

He is temperamental and impatient and can be very difficult to live with. Jamie Oliver tends to respond with a temper tantrum (overt or subtle) if his desires are frustrated. Jamie Oliver becomes very irritable and bad-tempered if he lacks vigorous physical activity or other outlets for his aggressive, feisty spirit.

His emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Jamie Oliver does not want to be caged or dictated to, and he feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Oliver tends to surround himself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless, and changeable, and his relationships, with women in particular, may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Jamie Oliver enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.

Jamie has intense desires and feelings and his personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Jamie Oliver has powerful magnetic relationships with those he cares about, and he could become emotionally obsessed by another person. His feelings can become so urgent and compelling that he behaves irrationally. Jamie Oliver undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when he must break all ties with the past and begin anew.

Sensitive and sentimental, Jamie Oliver is deeply attached to his family, old friends, familiar places and the past. He is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Oliver to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Jamie Oliver seeks caring, emotional support, and security in his love relationships. Jamie likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect his loved ones, of whom he is somewhat possessive.

Oliver is a very sociable, congenial person and he wilts very quickly without relationships with good friends and people to share good times with. Jamie Oliver thoroughly enjoys working with others on group projects or community activities. He is quite happy when he is a part of a club, support group, or team of some sort.

Jamie Oliver shares whatever he has freely and his friends know they can always count on Jamie's generosity and support - both emotional and material. His good-hearted acceptance and tolerance of others' foibles goes a long way toward maintaining harmony in his relationships. Jamie Oliver also has a lazy streak and sometimes avoids confronting difficult issues in relationships simply because it seems like too much trouble and too petty. Jamie likes to socialize and will use any excuse to celebrate with friends. He cannot tolerate being overly restricted by his love partner, and encourages his partner's freedom as well.

Jamie's pleasure-loving nature and his emotional and material generosity discussed above are counterbalanced by a certain caution or restraint in expressing his affection, and by a fear of heartache. At times Jamie Oliver is likely to be the jovial, friendly, rather extravagant person mentioned previously, but at other times he is far more contained as described here. Because he is upbeat and fun-loving, people probably do not suspect how sensitive Oliver is to being left out or unappreciated.

Intimacy does not come easily to Jamie Oliver and he may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to his emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in his early life, Oliver does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of his barriers and defenses. He may feel that he has few friends or people that really care about him. Jamie Oliver needs to learn to value and love himself more and to express his appreciation for others more openly.

Jamie has an affectionate nature and is in harmony with his environment. Charming and friendly, he is on good terms with most of the people in his sphere. His friends and associates mean a lot to Jamie Oliver and his relationships are positive and loving.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 5th house

Moon Square Mars

Moon Sextile Uranus

Moon Square Pluto

Venus in Cancer

Venus in 11th house

Venus Square Jupiter

Venus aspects Jupiter and Saturn

Venus Conjunct Saturn

Venus Conjunct Sun/Asc.