James Brolin in Relationships
Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. James Brolin denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". James Brolin needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. James Brolin also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.
James has strong attachments to his past, the place where he grew up, his heritage and family traditions. In fact, James Brolin may be unable to step out of the habits and roles that he learned as a child. Brolin's ties to his mother are very strong and James also seeks nurturing and protection from his spouse and other family members.
The beauty and harmony of his surroundings have a very powerful effect on Brolin's emotions. He is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, James Brolin is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".
James has an affectionate, warm-hearted, congenial and fun loving nature, and his emotional impulses are quite strong. Forming relationships with others is important to James Brolin and he may have an early desire for marriage.
His sense of reality is a bit weak; Brolin tends to daydream and lose himself in his plans. He is likely to be preoccupied with fantasies or ideas that help him escape the ordinary. Always looking for ideal relationships, James may be drawn to philanthropic associations.
James Brolin tends to be a bit pessimistic and is inclined to feel emotional depressed a lot. James may feel like withdrawing from everything, but should try to listen to others' point of view in order to balance his overly pessimistic views.
In a love relationship, James Brolin is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. James likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps him guessing and James Brolin becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises him. It is very important to James Brolin's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. James Brolin needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Brolin finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.
James is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.
Moreover, James Brolin feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.
James Brolin has a very romantic, idealistic vision of love relationships and may be disillusioned to discover that no real, flesh-and-blood human being ever quite lives up to his dream image of the "perfect love". Though James frequently fantasizes about love and romance - he may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. When it comes to love, Brolin can be evasive and dishonest with himself and others. Some of Brolin's love yearnings may be expressed through art, music or an involvement with mysticism.
He is likely to have many romantic relationships or unusual love experiences. James Brolin tends to fall in love quickly and enjoy a conquest, but then tire of what has been conquered. If he does not keep this in control, he could end up in a hasty marriage and a quick divorce.
He is rich in feelings and has the ability to express them well. James Brolin has a knack for making others feel good and is likely to enjoy a harmonious sex-life. James also has a strong need to create and may have a flair for designing fashionable clothes.
It may be hard for James Brolin to love someone and to express his love for them. There seems to be a wall built up between him and others and he seems very cool to them. His disposition is very reserved and withdrawn, making it difficult for people to approach him.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 4th house
Moon Trine Neptune
Moon Opposition Venus/Mars
Moon Opposition Jupiter/Neptune
Moon Opposition Saturn/Neptune
Venus in Gemini
Venus in 9th house
Venus Square Neptune
Venus Conjunct Sun/Uranus
Venus Conjunct Mars/Jupiter
Venus Conjunct Mars/Saturn
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