James Blunt
in Relationships

Tenderhearted and sympathetic to an unusual degree, James Blunt has an understanding of other people's feelings and needs which borders on telepathy. James Blunt is extremely compassionate and cannot bear to see any fellow creature - human or animal - suffer. Because of his kindness and nonjudgmental attitude, people suffering from pain or confusion are drawn to Blunt for help, which he readily gives. Sometimes Blunt's soft-heartedness is taken advantage of.

He is a gentle, poetic soul and has a great love and affinity for music. Because many of his feelings are vague and he cannot easily verbalize how he experiences life, music seems a natural language for Blunt. He is also extremely romantic and often "in love with love".

Blunt works well with the public and has an instinct for what the public wants and will respond to. Having a "nest" is not especially important to James, and he may invest more of his emotional energy into his career or public life than in his private life. Providing and caring for others, in a professional capacity is very likely.

He is a dreamer who is attracted to the inner, mystical side of life, and may have trouble distinguishing the real from the imagined or illusory. James does not enjoy confrontation and becomes very evasive when problems in his personal life or relationships arise, and escapes into his imagination in order to avoid dealing with them directly. He is also rather gullible and naive about people, especially if his sympathy has been aroused. James Blunt is very sensitive to music and can use it to achieve emotional balance and harmony.

Powerful and complex emotions stir James Blunt, and his emotional life and closest personal relationships are apt to be tumultuous until James does some deep soul searching. Buried feelings and memories that he does not want to deal with may surface at unexpected times. Holding in fears, secrets, or "taboo" thoughts and feelings can only serve to intensify them, and James Blunt needs to share them with someone who is sympathetic, trustworthy, and fairly objective. Ridding himself of emotional compulsions and deeply embedded patterns that do not serve him can be tremendously liberating, if James Blunt is willing to do the necessary inner house cleaning.

He is warm and affectionate in his relationships with others and has the ability to see the others' point of view, which is greatly appreciated by those around him. James Blunt is emotionally well balanced and also has a well developed intellectual grasp.

He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. James Blunt cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Blunt's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest James at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. James Blunt is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.

James Blunt may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security James desires.

James Blunt craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. James loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Blunt.

James Blunt is warmly romantic and he openly expresses his appreciation and love of the opposite sex, though rarely in a crude or insensitive manner. He enjoys playing matchmaker and bringing people together romantically. Blunt is likely to find fulfillment and harmony in love relationships because he knows what he wants and needs in a romantic sense and expresses his desires honestly.

James Blunt tends to deprive himself of pleasure, friendship, and love, either because he feels he does not deserve it or he thinks it is wrong to enjoy life too much. Blunt may have been indoctrinated with a duty-and-work-before-all-else orientation early on. He may also think of himself as unattractive or unlovable, and thus close his heart to opportunities to share love and companionship, never quite believing that others actually like him. James Blunt is apt to prefer solitude to being in uncomfortable relationships or social situations, and his shyness may be intense - especially when young. Learning to truly love and accept himself - including whatever flaws or imperfections James believes he has - is so important for him. This process of self-appreciation and self-love will reap rewards, especially in later life.

When it comes to love relationships, Blunt is likely to feel pulled in several directions at once. In addition to his desire for depth and security in his relationships, James Blunt has an impulsive side and a need for a lot of variety and excitement, as discussed in the following paragraphs. These urges do not have to conflict, but they certainly can, especially if James acts on his spontaneous impulses without much consideration for their long-term effects on his personal life.

His love feelings are easily aroused and his romantic relationships begin with a sudden electric attraction, but they often end abruptly, and Blunt may be in and out of love relationships - especially in his younger years. James Blunt craves emotional excitement and needs to feel spontaneous and free, so he may avoid making firm personal commitments. Unusual or nontraditional forms of love and relationships appeal to Blunt, and he is attracted to unique, creative or unstable people.

His attitude is positive and harmonious and James Blunt impresses others as a very caring individual. He is very friendly and pleasant when he is with other people and knows how to make himself popular. He is likely to have a very happy family life.

James tries to understand others completely and has the ability to feel their joy with them and also to suffer with them. When James Blunt loves someone, he loves with his whole heart and is inclined to reveal his most inner and private feelings.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Pisces

Moon in 10th house

Moon Square Neptune

Moon Quincunx Pluto

Moon Conjunct Sun/Mercury

Venus in Capricorn

Venus in 8th house

Venus Trine Mars

Venus Quincunx Saturn

Venus aspects Saturn and Uranus

Venus Square Uranus

Venus Conjunct Jupiter/N. Node

Venus Conjunct N. Node/MC