Jackie Gayda
in Relationships

Serious and responsible, she tries to carry the world on her shoulders and rarely lets others know that she needs help and support. Jackie Gayda denies or ignores her own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept her if she appears "weak". She is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells herself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Jackie Gayda needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with her "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, she may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Her feelings and loyalties run deep, but she often does not let people know how much she cares. Jackie Gayda also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy herself, and play.

Jackie Gayda has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Jackie sometimes lets her emotions overpower her reasoning and logic, and consequently she is sometimes biased in her opinions. Jackie Gayda is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way she comes across. Jackie wears her heart on her sleeves and cannot hide her emotions.

Jackie Gayda has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and she reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. Her emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among her circle of friends, and people often seek Jackie out for help, sympathy or advice. Jackie Gayda is always willing to overlook others' faults, and she sometimes overdoes her charitableness.

Her emotional attitudes and instincts tend to be quite liberal. Jackie Gayda does not want to be caged or dictated to, and she feels everyone is entitled to do as they please in their personal and emotional affairs. Gayda tends to surround herself with people who are unusual, creative, open-minded, unpredictable, restless and changeable, and her relationships - with women in particular - may be somewhat unstable as a result. However, Jackie Gayda enjoys an element of surprise and unpredictability.

Jackie has intense desires and feelings and her personal relationships are deeply emotional, passionate and often stormy and painful as well. Jackie Gayda has powerful magnetic relationships with those she cares about, and she could become emotionally obsessed by another person. Her feelings can become so urgent and compelling that she behaves irrationally. Jackie Gayda undergoes periodic emotional upheavals and purging when she must break all ties with the past and begin anew.

In love relationships, Jackie Gayda seeks companionship and friendship with someone who is fun loving, playful and open to adventure and new experiences. She enjoys traveling together, meeting new people and making new friends. Honeymooning in a distant location appeals to Jackie, and she is also attracted to foreigners or people with diametrically different backgrounds than her own. Jackie Gayda supports her partner in taking risks and making positive changes, rather than preserving the status quo. She also very much wants a partner who will encourage her own aspirations and dreams. It is very important to Jackie that she have a spiritual or intellectual rapport with her love partner, perhaps more important than the emotional/physical aspect. Jackie Gayda is not especially sentimental and her love partner may feel that she is too casual and not serious or romantic enough.

Jackie Gayda often hides her affection, or finds her feelings difficult to express or get across to the person she loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Jackie. She may feel her love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Jackie Gayda may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to her. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Jackie Gayda - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one she loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.

Jackie Gayda loves to laugh, celebrate and enjoy herself with her companions. Emotionally open and easygoing, Jackie considers just about anyone a friend or potential friend. Her good humor and friendliness make her quite popular and well liked. At times, Jackie Gayda overdoes the festivities, but she rarely regrets it.

She is very romantic, idealistic and imaginative about love relationships. Jackie Gayda yearns for her "true love" or "soul mate" and may become disappointed in those who never quite live up to her dream image of the perfect lover. Gayda frequently fantasizes about love and often falls in love with someone she can only love from afar. She may avoid making a definite personal commitment. Gentle and sensitive, Jackie Gayda does not like to be approached in a very direct or aggressive manner. She is attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations.

Her romantic relationships tend to be deep, intense, passionate and highly emotional. It is "all or nothing" with her. Oftentimes Jackie Gayda is irresistibly attracted to someone and feels that she has very little choice or control over her powerful feelings.

She may well be highly magnetic and sexually attractive herself. Jackie Gayda should beware of using this power to manipulate people, for she could gain the reputation of being a "user".

Jackie Gayda tends to be a bit self-centered and willful in love relationships, but also magnetic. Her desire is always very strong and Gayda resents authority and likes to be different. Jackie Gayda may also have artistic ambitions and always has many new ideas at her disposal.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Capricorn

Moon in 1st house

Moon Square Jupiter

Moon Sextile Uranus

Moon Square Pluto

Venus in Sagittarius

Venus in 12th house

Venus Sextile Jupiter

Venus Conjunct Neptune

Venus Sextile Pluto

Venus Conjunct Moon/Uranus