Jack Hawkins
in Relationships
Serious and responsible, he tries to carry the world on his shoulders and rarely lets others know that he needs help and support. Jack Hawkins denies or ignores his own emotional needs and feels that others will not accept him if he appears "weak". He is especially uncomfortable with emotional dependency, and tells himself and others (even children) not to be a "baby". Jack Hawkins needs to accept that no one is self-sufficient all the time, and to be gentler with his "childish" emotional needs and wants. To others, he may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. His feelings and loyalties run deep, but he often does not let people know how much he cares. Jack Hawkins also sometimes needs to learn to relax, enjoy himself, and play.
He is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for his belongings give Jack Hawkins a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to him. Antiques or articles with sentimental value from Jack's past are especially dear to him.
Jack Hawkins may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of his immediate circle.
He is assertive and confronts difficulties in a direct, no-nonsense sort of way. Jack Hawkins cannot tolerate self-pity or passivity, and he can be rather brusque with others' emotional problems. "Stop crying and do something about it" might be Hawkins' motto.
Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Jack Hawkins also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.
Jack Hawkins has a buoyant, cheerful disposition and he reaches out to others in a warm, open and friendly way. His emotional generosity and lack of pettiness is well known among his circle of friends, and people often seek Jack out for help, sympathy or advice. Jack Hawkins is always willing to overlook others' faults, and he sometimes overdoes his charitableness.
Jack has an unusual sense of humor and enjoys acting a little bit crazy or outlandish sometimes. Hawkins craves excitement and emotional freedom and he likes to break the rules and take risks. Anything new or untried appeals to Hawkins and he has little patience for restrictive customs. Jack Hawkins is attracted to unusual, creative, or offbeat people and nontraditional lifestyles and relationships.
Although Jack Hawkins was portrayed above as being assertive and combative, he also has a diametrically opposed tendency - namely the urge to escape all contention and ugliness. This may mellow Jack's fiery reactions somewhat, or he may seesaw between the two. His softer side is described in the following paragraphs.
Emotionally he is very sensitive, dreamy, gentle and easily influenced. If he is with harmonious people and in congenial surroundings, Jack Hawkins flourishes, but negative people or dissonant energies very quickly bring him down. His emotional boundaries tend to be very loose and permeable. Jack Hawkins feels what others feel, and physically he is very open and impressionable. Standing up for himself, saying no when he wants to, as well as recognizing and respecting others' limitations and boundaries are important lessons for Jack Hawkins to learn. Jack Hawkins should beware of a tendency for martyrdom out of pity for others' problems.
He is very compassionate and loves to share his feelings with others. Jack Hawkins is always in search for new relationships and enjoy working together with others in meetings, clubs or associations.
Hawkins relates to others on an emotional level, because he feels his emotions so strongly yourself. He is sensitive to others' needs and has the ability to create a cozy atmosphere when he is together with another person.
He is quietly devoted and faithful to his loved ones and often becomes subservient to his love partner. Jack Hawkins is more comfortable showing his love by doing or making something for his loved one, or simply being there for her, rather than by making any romantic, soul-stirring declarations. He is timid about expressing too much sentiment or emotion. Jack Hawkins also underestimates his attractiveness and lovability and doubts his own worthiness of love and appreciation.
Jack is attracted to foreigners, exotic places, traveling and people who can expand his horizons, teach him something, or show him places and worlds he has never experienced before. Sharing a philosophy or ideal with his love partner is important to him.
Moreover, Jack Hawkins feels love and kinship for people everywhere, not only for his own family, nationality, or group. Finding similarities and making links between people from differing backgrounds or with different perspectives is a gift of his.
Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Jack Hawkins in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. Hawkins is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Jack Hawkins at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.
Jack Hawkins has a vivid imagination and is likely to imagine the most wonderful things, but he may over-idealize and tend to expect too much of love relationships. Jack tries to escape unpleasant experiences through fantasy and deception.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Capricorn
Moon in 2nd house
Moon Trine Mars
Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter
Moon Square Jupiter
Moon Conjunct Uranus
Moon aspects Mars and Neptune
Moon Opposition Neptune
Moon Opposition Sun/N. Node
Moon Opposition N. Node/MC
Venus in Virgo
Venus in 9th house
Venus Trine Saturn
Venus Conjunct Mercury/Neptune
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