Ida Lupino
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know her inner core, for Ida Lupino only trusts and opens herself to a select few. Allowing herself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Lupino.

Ida has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Ida Lupino has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to herself. It is important for Ida Lupino to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express her feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

She is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Ida Lupino has a great deal of emotional depth.

She is likely to be a great collector of things - a real pack rat in fact - for her belongings give Ida Lupino a sense of security and continuity with the past, which is important to her. Antiques or things with sentimental value from Ida's past are especially dear to her.

Ida Lupino may also cling rather tightly to money and possessions, keeping them "in the family" rather than sharing freely with those outside of her immediate circle.

Ida has conflicting emotional desires and needs which complicate her personal life and relationships. She may feel that she cannot depend on her love partner to take care of her or perhaps Lupino cannot decide what she really wants in love relationships: a parent or a lover. If her needs for emotional sustenance and love are not satisfied, overeating (especially sweets) can become a problem.

Ida Lupino craves excitement, change and discovery, and cannot tolerate a routine or lifestyle that offers little in the way of surprise or challenge. Excitable, spontaneous and enthusiastic about anything new, she may be perceived by others as being too impulsive, especially in personal relationships. It is not easy for Ida Lupino to make or keep commitments, since she does not know how she will be feeling from one day to the next. Emotional freedom is very important to Lupino. Her domestic life may be very unstable - but Lupino likes it that way.

She is open and unconventional in her attitude towards love relationships, romance and sex. She enjoys socializing, bringing people together and having many friends of both sexes. Ida Lupino values friendship very highly and in fact, she is more comfortable being a friend than a lover. Ida desires an intellectual rapport or spiritual bond with her love partner, but deep intimacy and emotional bonding do not come easily to her. The traditional "husband" and "wife" roles do not appeal to Lupino, and she abhors jealousy and possessiveness since she feels that no person truly "belongs" to another. Ida Lupino appreciates relationships in which her love partner allows her plenty of freedom and is not very emotionally demanding.

A warm, loving, and comfortable home is very important to Ida Lupino and she invests a lot of her energy into beautifying, decorating, and creating a lovely home. Also, Ida shares her affection with the people in her family very generously and having close family relationships is a major priority for her. Being at home makes Lupino happy.

She is excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. Ida Lupino falls in love very quickly and has little self-restraint or concern for propriety when her feelings have been stirred. However, it may be difficult for Ida to sustain relationships after the first rush of excitement wanes, especially if Lupino's partner is basically a conservative person who does not like to change or experiment. Nontraditional relationships appeal to Ida Lupino, and personal freedom is or paramount importance to her.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 2nd house

Moon Square Venus

Moon Square Uranus

Venus in Aquarius

Venus in 4th house

Venus Conjunct Uranus