Huntington Hartford in Relationships
Open and generous, Huntington Hartford enjoys a wide circle of friends and acquaintances and he thrives on sociability and fellowship. He is adventurous, playful, freedom loving, and always ready for a good time. Hartford rarely allows obstacles or difficulties to keep him down, for no matter how bleak the past or present, Huntington always expects a better, brighter future. In fact, he is uncomfortable with his own or other people's problems and emotional pain. Huntington Hartford often tries to "cheer up" or offer philosophical advice to those who are hurting, but he unwittingly avoids or ignores the emotions involved.
Friendship means a great deal to Hartford, perhaps even more than love relationships or romance. For Huntington Hartford to be happy, his mate must be his best friend and encourage Huntington's aspirations and ideals. Huntington Hartford also needs a great deal of emotional freedom and mobility.
Hartford depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends who care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Huntington's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them have a powerful impact on his sense of security and happiness. Huntington Hartford may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.
Highly sensitive and rather easily taken in, Huntington Hartford needs to beware of deceiving himself and allowing others to take advantage of his impressionability or gentleness. Daydreaming, fantasizing or other forms of imaginative, escapist behavior (such as watching television excessively or living his life through romance novels) could be something of an addiction for Hartford. Huntington Hartford tends to confuse images with reality and needs to learn to be more circumspect and discriminating. Disenchantment with women and close relationships could ensue as a result.
His intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Huntington Hartford that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. He may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and Hartford's neediness often drives others away. When Huntington Hartford does let himself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses he suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt he endured. He may also reenact these situations in his present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. Hartford will do a lot of cleansing if he can listen to what his feelings are telling him. If not, Huntington Hartford will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.
Huntington Hartford responds in a strong emotional way to the influence of his environment and has a need to reform those around him. Huntington has a very powerful psychic influence on others and they may look to Hartford for guidance and direction, and he rarely lets them down.
In a love relationship, Huntington Hartford is more interested in the person's sense of humor and intelligence than in her physique. Huntington likes a partner who is mentally alive and keeps him guessing and Huntington Hartford becomes restless and bored with someone who never asks questions, changes or surprises him. It is very important to Huntington Hartford's happiness to talk, share ideas, go places together and learn new things together. Huntington Hartford needs ample social stimulation, is somewhat of a flirt, and likes to have many friends of both sexes. Hartford finds a possessive, jealous partner very stifling.
Huntington Hartford often hides his affection, or finds his feelings difficult to express or get across to the person he loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Huntington. He may feel his love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Huntington Hartford may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to him. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Huntington Hartford - i.e. having to give something up to be with the one he loves, or having to relinquish a person or an aspect of an important love relationship.
He is intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex, and is not inclined to friendly platonic relationships. There is a great deal of tension in his love relationships - often because Huntington Hartford puts his desires ahead of his partner's, and is impatient to have his love needs satisfied. The whole arena of love relationships, romance and sex is endlessly fascinating to Huntington Hartford and he is not happy without a love partner. Hartford can "burn himself out" by pouring so much of his energy into romance.
He is open and progressive in his attitude towards love relationships and romance, and spontaneous and free in the way he expresses his love. Huntington Hartford is always willing to experiment and try anything new that his partner suggests, and he enjoys being surprised. A relationship in which both Huntington and his partner have a good deal of freedom and independence will hold Hartford's interest much more than a safe, predictable one.
His nature is harmonious and Huntington radiates happiness so that everyone around him will be in good spirits. His taste is likely to be elegant and he has a strong desire to surround himself with beauty. Huntington Hartford may be interested in fashion, hair-styling or other beauty-related fields.
Huntington has great self-discipline and knows exactly what he can demand of himself. His love relationships are inclined to be connected with a lot of problems and Huntington Hartford may wish to give up love altogether and retreat to a life of solitude and seclusion.
Huntington Hartford treats others in an agreeable, affectionate and tactful way and freely shows his affection for them. His circle of friends is likely to be large and Hartford strives for the development of a strong community spirit.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Sagittarius
Moon in 7th house
Moon Quincunx Neptune
Moon Opposition Pluto
Moon Opposition Pluto/Asc.
Venus in Gemini
Venus in 12th house
Venus Square Mars
Venus Trine Uranus
Venus Opposition Moon/Jupiter
Venus Conjunct Saturn/Pluto
Venus Conjunct N. Node/Asc.
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