Holly Valance
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Holly Valance has frequent emotional outbursts due to her fiery temper and emotional impulsiveness. Valance expresses herself very directly and honestly and no one has to guess what her true feelings are. However, Holly Valance dislikes showing any personal weakness or her need for support, comfort and nurturing. She is often impatient with herself and others. Holly abhors emotional dependency and dislikes "complainers".

Holly Valance inspires others to take positive action in their lives through her own enthusiasm and eagerness to meet life's challenges, and she is attracted to people who are adventurous, courageous and independent. Holly is rather bossy but does not like to be with people that she can boss around too much. She enjoys a good fight sometimes. Relationships that are built on mutual respect and emotional freedom are ideal for Valance.

Holly Valance becomes very cross if she lacks vigorous physical activity. Valance feels her best if she frequently "does battle" on the tennis or racquetball court (or engages in another form of competitive sport).

Holly Valance may have done extensive traveling in her early years, or in some way had a background which enables her to understand and identify with many different types of people or cultures.

Valance has a craving for things which are far away and foreign or for things she has never experienced before. Holly Valance wants to completely immerse herself in the feelings and tastes of a new place, rather than simply have facts or an intellectual appreciation. Emotionally, too, Holly is restless and something of a wanderer.

Holly Valance genuinely appreciates and understands women, and is likely to have many female friends, a network of women who love and support her. It is relatively easy for Holly Valance to attract companionship and affection, and there will never be a lack of such relationships in her life. Children are very important to Valance also.

Some rather acute fears of being excluded, rejected, left out in the cold or separated from loved ones can make Holly Valance either extremely cautious about getting close to people or clingy toward whoever gives her any warmth or security. Holly Valance tends to withhold and clamp down on many of her feelings and craves nurturing and security, perhaps feeling that they are unacceptable or will never be satisfied. Learning to be open and trust others to nurture her is important to her. Her earliest years, especially Valance's relationships with her mother, will determine whether Holly Valance will overcome her fears or retreat behind a mask of self-sufficiency and indifference.

The beauty and harmony of her surroundings have a very powerful effect on Valance's emotions. She is very sensitive and cannot stand to be in an atmosphere where there is discord or dissonance. Gentle, kindhearted, and peace loving, Holly Valance is prepared to sacrifice a great deal in order to avoid a fight and to "make everyone happy".

Her intimate and close personal relationships are often intense, highly-charged and difficult, as they trigger deep emotional responses in Holly Valance that have more to do with unsatisfied hungers and unmet childhood needs than with the present situation. She may feel like a voracious, bottomless pit when it comes to nurturing and emotional reassurance, and Valance's neediness often drives others away. When Holly Valance does let herself feel close to another human being, painful, long-buried feelings bubble to the surface as do - perhaps - grief at the losses she suffered or anger at the neglect or hurt she endured. She may also reenact these situations in her present day relationships, in an unconscious effort to resolve and heal old issues. Valance will do a lot of cleansing if she can listen to what her feelings are telling her. If not, Holly Valance will simply have a tumultuous, passionate and stormy emotional life.

She is inclined to be somewhat gloomy, is easily offended, and she tries to suppress the jealousy she may feel. Holly Valance may have been brought up to sacrifice and forego a lot of things, making her a bit hard and unyielding in later life.

Sensitive and sentimental, Holly Valance is deeply attached to her family, old friends, familiar places and the past. She is romantic and tender in love relationships, and it is of utmost importance to Valance to remember birthdays, anniversaries, family rituals and other personally significant days. Holly Valance seeks caring, emotional support, and security in her love relationships. Holly likes to be needed, as well as to cherish and protect her loved ones, of whom she is somewhat possessive.

Holly Valance often hides her affection, or finds her feelings difficult to express or get across to the person she loves. Being openly affectionate and trusting often does not seem safe to Holly. She may feel her love will not be appreciated or reciprocated. Holly Valance may get involved in secret love relationships or fall in love with a person who is quite unavailable to her. Love and sacrifice often seem to go hand in hand for Holly Valance - having to give something up to be with the one she loves, or having to relinquish some person or some aspect of an important love relationship.

Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Holly Valance in love relationships. She is cautious about giving her heart away but true to the one who does win her love. Her tastes are simple, even austere, and she does not appreciate frivolity. Valance is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in her or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Holly Valance at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for her with time.

Holly Valance tends to be attracted to people who are not quite what they seem. Gullible, romantic and rather easily seduced, Holly frequently falls in love with an image in her own mind, which she then projects onto the object of her affections, only to discover later that this person never really had the lovely qualities she endowed her with. Holly Valance also confuses love relationships with pity, sacrifice, or misplaced notions of "selfishness", thereby setting herself up to be taken advantage of. She is capable of great devotion to a spiritual cause, for she is actually seeking some sort of transcendent or mystical experience through love.

Holly Valance loves deeply, passionately and wholeheartedly, and others may find her intensity either extremely attractive or threatening. She is charismatic and can have a powerful emotional impact on others, especially those of the opposite sex. Valance may use her attractiveness to manipulate others, sometimes without even realizing it.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Aries

Moon in 9th house

Moon Sextile Venus

Moon Opposition Saturn

Moon Trine Neptune

Moon Opposition Pluto

Moon Opposition Saturn/Pluto

Venus in Cancer

Venus in 12th house

Venus Trine Saturn

Venus Opposition Neptune

Venus Trine Pluto