H. G. Wells
in Relationships
He is not easily moved by emotional displays and can be curiously detached from his own emotions and those of others. It is almost as if he could turn his feelings on and off at will; Herbert should be careful not to leave the switch "off" too often, for he could easily become too impersonal. Family relationships and attachments are not as important to him as they are to most people and Wells often considers his friends closer to him than his blood relatives. Certainly, Wells' sympathy and concern extends much beyond his immediate family. In his personal relationships, Herbert George Wells insists upon a certain amount of independence and the freedom to pursue friendships with as many people, of both sexes, as he chooses. Herbert does not appreciate a jealous, possessive partner.
Herbert George Wells feels comfortable in an atmosphere that is open and experimental, and he has little taste for convention and tradition.
Herbert George Wells has a soft exterior and tends to relate very personally and sympathetically to other people. However, Herbert sometimes lets his emotions overpower his reasoning and logic, and consequently he is sometimes biased in his opinions. Herbert George Wells is impressionable and rather gentle, or at least that is the way he appears. His feelings are on the surface and Herbert cannot hide his emotions.
His attitude toward other people is very emotional and Herbert George Wells feels a certain soul affinity with them. Herbert has an inner need to express his feelings to others and is especially partial to groups where he can help to further their accomplishments.
He is getting quickly excited by other people and will probably have many relationships that are terminated just as quickly as they are made. Herbert George Wells does not like to be alone and he always keeps his house open for his friends and acquaintances.
In love relationships, Herbert George Wells desires a deep, intense and passionate union with his beloved and forms very strong emotional bonds and attachments. Herbert "marries" the person he loves at a very deep emotional level, and is often extremely possessive and jealous of anyone who may pose a threat to that union. Wells can be very demanding of his love partner. Herbert George Wells tends to be somewhat suspicious of his partner's relationships, even if they are merely platonic. If he is ever betrayed, Herbert George Wells is capable of hating with as much force and intensity as he once loved. He is attracted to people who have an aura of mystery about them.
Herbert George Wells craves very intense, deep, emotional relationships, and would even prefer stormy, tumultuous relationships to ones that are smooth but lacking vitality and passion. Herbert loves wholeheartedly and expects all-consuming, total devotion and attention from his partner. Casual, light relationships hold no appeal for Wells.
Intimacy does not come easily to Herbert George Wells and he may appear cold or unfeeling to others due to his emotional reserve and caution. Perhaps due to painful relationships and separations in his early life, Wells does not trust others very easily and it takes a long time to break down all of his barriers and defenses. He may feel that he has few friends or people that really care about him. Herbert George Wells needs to learn to value and love himself more and to express his appreciation for others more openly.
It is absolutely essential for Herbert George Wells not to deceive himself when it comes to love relationships, romance, or the true nature of other people. Herbert tends to be in love with love, and can be incredibly naive and easily seduced. Confusion, disappointments, and regrettable mistakes in both emotional and financial matters may result. On the other hand, it is also possible that Herbert George Wells will use his attractiveness or charm to deceive others. Clarity, directness, honesty, and realism regarding romantic relationships and people in general, need to be developed.
Intimate relationships are the arena in which Herbert George Wells explores the depths he is capable of. He could fall intensely and fanatically in love and be obsessive, extraordinarily jealous or deeply involved with his partners. Wells will experience both heaven and hell in his closest relationships. There is undoubtedly a peculiarly karmic, fated quality to these relationships, which - though difficult - will teach Herbert George Wells things about himself and about love that he could not learn in any other way. Wells will often enter relationships which he realizes - rationally - will be very difficult, yet he cannot resist them, nonetheless. Herbert George Wells needs not to avoid berating himself for these "bad" choices; instead, he needs to learn what he can from them.
Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:
Moon in Aquarius
Moon in 1st house
Moon Opposition Mars/N. Node
Moon Opposition Uranus/N. Node
Venus in Scorpio
Venus in 8th house
Venus Conjunct Saturn
Venus Quincunx Neptune
Venus Opposition Pluto
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