Henry Miller
in Relationships

Secretive and inclined to brooding silences, it is difficult for others to really know his inner core, for Henry Miller only trusts and opens himself to a select few. Allowing himself to be vulnerable and to relinquish control in relationships is not easy for Miller.

Henry has intense, passionate loves and hates and is a jealously loyal and protective friend - or a fearsome foe. Henry Miller has a nasty habit of holding onto past hurts, resentments and guilt - and to keep such feelings to himself. It is important for Henry Miller to learn to forgive and let go, as well as to express his feelings openly and directly, rather than hiding or repressing them.

He is not content with superficial appearances and is always probing beneath the surface of things for hidden motives. Henry Miller has a great deal of emotional depth.

Miller depends a great deal upon other people for emotional support and he has a large "family" of friends that care about him and treat him as kin. The women in Henry's life are particularly important to him, and his relationships with them powerfully influence his sense of security and happiness. Henry Miller may be overly dependent and unsure of himself without a close partner.

Henry Miller feels that he must always be doing something, and he becomes impatient and irritable if he has to slow down or wait for anything. A stormy home life may be the result of his own tendency to fight for what he wants, rather than compromise. Henry may not realize how competitive he is.

Although he is impetuous and easily provoked (as mentioned above), Henry Miller also has a good-natured, live-and-let-live attitude and a sense of humor, which balances it all out. While hotheaded at times, he is usually a good sport.

He is easygoing, agreeable and tolerant, willing to overlook others' mistakes, forget the past, and begin anew on a positive note. He enjoys making others comfortable and happy, and he sometimes overdoes his generosity. Henry Miller often feels that "everything will turn out all right no matter what I do", thereby becoming lazy and lackadaisical.

He is definitely not one to wear his heart on his sleeve. Henry Miller cares very much about others' opinions and craves love and appreciation as much as anyone - however one would never know it from Miller's reserved and seemingly detached demeanor. Casual, superficial relationships do not interest Henry at all. He is cautious and serious about love and really desires deep, genuine, lasting relationships. Henry Miller is old-fashioned about courtship and love relationships, and will remain faithful to his loved one in good times and in bad.

Henry Miller may be attracted to older persons who are emotionally mature and reliable and can provide the security Henry desires.

Promoting beauty, the arts, or entertainment can make Henry Miller very happy. Henry wants to contribute something positive and loving to the world at large and he wants to be recognized for his beauty, artistic gifts, or loving generosity. Henry Miller may "marry" his work - that is, being more involved in his career than in his private life. Miller is a natural host or diplomat.

Loyalty, fidelity and security are very important to Henry Miller in love relationships. He is cautious about giving his heart away but true to the one who does win his love. His tastes are simple, even austere, and he does not appreciate frivolity. Miller is interested in a person's character and inner qualities far more than in his or her appearance. Casual or superficial relationships do not interest Henry Miller at all, for love seems to get deeper and richer and more satisfying for him with time.

It is hard for Henry Miller to express his feelings and emotions to other people. He may feel especially inhibited in matters of love relationships and could feel dissatisfied and unfulfilled. Henry Miller tends to feel lonely, even when he is in the company of others.

It is easy for Henry Miller to show others the love he feels for them and he talks freely to them about his feelings. Henry likes nice surroundings and wants to beautify his environment as quickly as possible, once he has come up with an idea to do so.

Astrological factors in this Astro Profile section:

Moon in Scorpio

Moon in 7th house

Moon Conjunct Mars

Moon aspects Mars and Jupiter

Moon Trine Jupiter

Venus in Capricorn

Venus in 10th house

Venus Trine Saturn

Venus Opposition Saturn/N. Node

Venus Conjunct Uranus/Asc.